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    Post by femme fatale Thu Jan 17, 2013 7:46 am

    Topic was prompted by a convo with an older relative who confronted her son about his time in prison (he did 6yrs) and his sexual activities while inside. Now, I am NOT SURE why she felt it was her place to question him about this but she said she asked him "were you at least careful inside doing whatever it is you all do in there or do you need to get tested?" and after he shockingly asked her to clarify what she meant, she basically told him that she isn't stupid. It's no way he was in prison for that long and didn't have sexual contact with a man. The conversation went downhill from there and they are not speaking right now.

    How many of you feel that way? That if a man spends extended time in prison, he is guaranteed to have sexual contact with another man?
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    Post by RobbieFTW Thu Jan 17, 2013 9:12 am

    Men who did time in prison... Beecher_keller68
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    Post by CeCe Thu Jan 17, 2013 10:25 am

    RobbieFTW wrote:Men who did time in prison... Beecher_keller68

    Meloni is so damn hot salivate
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    Post by Shale Thu Jan 17, 2013 10:53 am

    It is common, as well as rape but not guaranteed to happen. Depends on the population and your standing within it.

    And yes, men confined with other men even those who identify as str8 will often consensually engage in sex. Again, common but not a given.

    As for safety - this is a big issue in prisons and some hard nosed prison officials refuse to let condoms be available for the same misguided illogical logic that they don't want teens to have access to condoms, believing it will promote promiscuity. No, the promiscuity is a natural inclination the condoms are to prevent diseases from spreading.

    My opinion is that the older relative was an insensitive ass to confront her son in this manner. What was the point? If he had sex there or if he was not in prison and had sex with someone he picked up at a bar, what was the point of her intruding where she has no right. And as stated, having safer sex may not have been an option for him.
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    Post by RedBedroom Thu Jan 17, 2013 11:31 am

    I never thought about it before, but it is interesting to ponder. I definitely do not think it is a given at all. I am sure most do not opt for gay sex when they are straight just because that is the only sex they can get. But this topic makes me wonder about how they feel about just getting a hug from someone. If a person is doing life in prison, they are never or rarely getting hugs. Just that lack of personal contact with another human being has to be difficult.
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    Post by Chris Thu Jan 17, 2013 11:48 am

    I have a cousin who spent almost a decade in prison. I'm afraid to even ask.
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    Post by Tony Marino Thu Jan 17, 2013 12:20 pm

    First off that was his business not the relatives and I would have just ignored the question. Secondly, I would think a Str8 man being confined for 6 years without female companionship is likely to have a homosexual experience in prison, not saying it would happen but likely. I think when a sexual situation presents itself to a man confined he is more than likely going to act on it.
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    Post by Shale Thu Jan 17, 2013 12:45 pm

    RedBedroom wrote:... I definitely do not think it is a given at all. I am sure most do not opt for gay sex when they are straight just because that is the only sex they can get. ...

    Str8 men will fuck a sheep if they can't get a woman. Shocked
    (That was the big fallacy about Brokeback Mountain)

    This is why there are so many stories about male/male sex among prisoners, sailors & lonesome cowboys.
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    Post by Tony Marino Thu Jan 17, 2013 1:40 pm

    Shale wrote:

    Str8 men will fuck a sheep if they can't get a woman. Shocked
    (That was the big fallacy about Brokeback Mountain)

    This is why there are so many stories about male/male sex among prisoners, sailors & lonesome cowboys.

    Yup
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    Post by Cheaps Thu Jan 17, 2013 5:58 pm

    RedBedroom wrote: I definitely do not think it is a given at all. I am sure most do not opt for gay sex when they are straight just because that is the only sex they can get.

    I agree with this.
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    Post by AtownPeep Thu Jan 17, 2013 7:31 pm

    Hmm. I remember watching the old talkshow OH DRAMA once where a guy who was in prison for 10 yrs talked about his experience. As he was talking, he brought up certain things he DIDN'T do in all his time there and one of those he said was engage with other men that way. So I guess it depends on who it is, where his head is at and his "standing" on the inside.
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    Post by wants2laugh Thu Jan 17, 2013 11:00 pm

    i was just reading a book that said that 60% of men do not consider oral sex as sex. 30% do not consider oral sex with another as cheating on a partner. Was a neat article. So if a survey was done, that said, "in prison did u have sex with another man" the answer might be different if the question read, "have you had intercourse or oral sex with a man".

    honestly... i think some men are soooo homophobic that they would never do it. my brother wouldnt even buy a bronco cause the gear shift was too "phallic". there is no way in hell that he would be screwing a guy... i honestly think he would kill himself before that day happened.
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    Post by Nystyle709 Thu Jan 17, 2013 11:13 pm

    femme fatale wrote:
    How many of you feel that way? That if a man spends extended time in prison, he is guaranteed to have sexual contact with another man?

    I don't. I have two uncles that have done a 5 yr bid or better in prison and I HIGHLY doubt they engaged in any homosexual activity. Partly because their prisons allowed conjugal visits. It depends on the man. If you're willing to have sex with another man, you prob. already had the tendencies anyway and prison just gave you a reason to do it.
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    Post by Tony Marino Fri Jan 18, 2013 4:36 pm

    Cheaps wrote:

    I agree with this.

    You might be very surprised how many do!
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    Post by Shale Fri Jan 18, 2013 5:03 pm

    What a lot of the women here are missing is they think that they can ask their str8 male if he did it with a guy and when he says "NO WAY!" that it is the truth. face palm
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    Post by Tony Marino Fri Jan 18, 2013 5:10 pm

    Shale wrote:What a lot of the women here are missing is they think that they can ask their str8 male if he did it with a guy and when he says "NO WAY!" that it is the truth. face palm

    RIGHT ON!
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    Post by Tony Marino Fri Jan 18, 2013 5:11 pm

    Have you ever seen any of the Bobby Garcia films? That alone would convince anyone that is skeptical.
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    Post by Nystyle709 Sat Jan 19, 2013 1:51 pm

    LOL. What's funny how people assume that every man somehow wants or will accept sleeping with another guy in a desperation act. I know that current pop culture out here is very gay friendly, but believe or not....there are men who don't and who have no desire to sleep with another man in ANY situation. And to think they do or will lie about it is really stupid in and of itself.
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    Post by Alan Smithee Sat Jan 19, 2013 3:47 pm

    I just hope I never have to find out! big grin
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    Post by Nhaiyel Sat Jan 19, 2013 10:58 pm

    We'd need to talk to some honest inmates and prison personnel to get a general idea of how likely things like that happen. Seems to me it would be one of those things that isn't very much out of the question, yet at the same time isn't an "absolute" either. But I agree that badgering a man who did time about something like this is damn near pointless. Would he admit it if he did? It's really one of those things that the ex-con would have to be willing to candidly divulge on his own. Asking someone something like this, that they would probably be too ashamed to admit, seems futile.
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    Post by FireIce918 Mon Jan 21, 2013 1:21 am

    femme fatale wrote:How many of you feel that way? That if a man spends extended time in prison, he is guaranteed to have sexual contact with another man?

    I know it's not right but I automatically think that. I just can't get "Oz" out of my head.

    And if they're not doing a man, they're doing the warden--aka the cell slut. And I imagine she's burning something fierce.
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    Post by Tony Marino Mon Jan 21, 2013 12:37 pm

    Nystyle709 wrote:LOL. What's funny how people assume that every man somehow wants or will accept sleeping with another guy in a desperation act.

    Or for money, gay for pay Smile

    I am quite sure there are a men out there that would not no matter who,where or what.

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