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    Bitter at any of your ex's?

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    Post by JM130ELM Thu Sep 16, 2010 9:04 am

    Are you bitter at any of your ex's?

    I continue to find it very amusing how bitter people are towards their ex's. I have seen some pretty cold names called and accusations hurled from friends toward their ex's, but I can't help but wonder...isn't this a person you claimed to have loved once, or were at least infatuated with. Have you ever given thought to what you did to contribute to the break up?

    No one is perfect and 100% innocent. Why is it so hard for some to accept the fact that it takes two to make and break a relationship and it is never ever one sided. Plus since I am a firm believer in "everything happens for a reason," shouldn't you give thought to how previous relationships make you into the person you are today?
    They build character and make you stronger.

    So why cant some just let it go, chalk it up to experience, and move on? Ex's have to have had some significant qualities to make you fall in love with them in the first place. Right? Why do they turn into such terrible people when the relationship breaks down?
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    Post by CeCe Thu Sep 16, 2010 2:31 pm

    Nope. When I move on I do it physically mentally & emotionally. There's no reason for them to be any part of my existence anymore.
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    Post by MandyPerfumeGirl Fri Sep 17, 2010 12:12 am

    I'm actually not bitter at any of my ex's, which is totally out of character for me, since I can usually hold a grudge like nobody's business. No matter how happy I am to start out with a new guy, I'm always so glad when it's over! Did I Say That? And sometimes I seem to like them more after the break-up than when I was dating them. Go figure!
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    Post by Nystyle709 Fri Sep 17, 2010 1:15 am

    Mmmmm....nope. I was bitter at one of my exes for a while, but that was because I was truly in love with him and our break up wasn't very peachy. But I got over it. Didn't think I would, but I did. And once I'm over something, whether is takes a while or not, it's a wrap.
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    Post by Chris Fri Sep 17, 2010 1:23 pm

    Ironically, I'm more bitter at some of the petty dates I've had that didn't amount to anything than any of the women I have had full fledged relationships with.
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    Post by Marc™ Fri Sep 17, 2010 11:58 pm

    Yep....a few of 'em actually. And one specifically better hope that if she's ever tied to a train track (like in those old silent movies) that I'm not the one who finds her, 'cause if I am she's fucked.
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    Post by Nystyle709 Sat Sep 18, 2010 2:32 am

    Marc wrote:Yep....a few of 'em actually. And one specifically better hope that if she's ever tied to a train track (like in those old silent movies) that I'm not the one who finds her, 'cause if I am she's fucked.

    Now why you gotta be like that? What did she do? 😆

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