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Should a Husband/Wife Confront Their Cheating Spouses Lover?
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Should a Husband/Wife Confront Their Cheating Spouses Lover?
by Marc™ Fri Oct 22, 2010 11:05 am
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by Supernova Fri Oct 22, 2010 11:08 am
Oh hell yes I would.
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by Marc™ Fri Oct 22, 2010 11:15 am
^ What would you say/do to her?
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by RedBedroom Fri Oct 22, 2010 12:40 pm
I probably would not unless she was someone that I already knew. Granted, it is her fault for choosing to be with a married man, but it is all on him for the betrayal if I did not know her too.
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by Supernova Fri Oct 22, 2010 3:50 pm
RedBedroom wrote:I probably would not unless she was someone that I already knew. Granted, it is her fault for choosing to be with a married man, but it is all on him for the betrayal if I did not know her too.
Of course you have to consider the possibility that she did not know he was married. For some skanks it's a turn on to take somebody's husband, but some women truly are left in the dark about that thing.
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by Nystyle709 Fri Oct 22, 2010 7:47 pm
Marc wrote:If your spouse cheated on you....would you confront their lover?
If I knew her well and she knew I was married, I would. If I knew of her and didn't know her personally, I wouldn't spend any energy on her. My beef would be 98% with him if I did know her and 100% if I didn't.
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by Alan Smithee Fri Oct 22, 2010 10:51 pm
Marc wrote:^ What would you say/do to her?
Lashings of the old ultraviolent?
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by MandyPerfumeGirl Sat Oct 23, 2010 4:37 pm
If I was married and my husband was cheating on me, I wouldn't say anything to the woman. I think there's nothing more foolish than two grown women fighting over a man, particularly a cheating one. I would promptly serve him with divorce papers and that would be it.
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by CeCe Sat Oct 23, 2010 5:27 pm
MandyPerfumeGirl wrote:If I was married and my husband was cheating on me, I wouldn't say anything to the woman. I think there's nothing more foolish than two grown women fighting over a man, particularly a cheating one.
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by jstone Sat Oct 23, 2010 6:03 pm
It depends on who it is. If its a stranger I would not bother. If its a good friend I loved I would confront them. The confrontation would focus on their betrayal of our friendship and trust.
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by AtownPeep Sat Oct 23, 2010 10:24 pm
If I walked in ON my husband in the throes of passion with his mistress I would take a second to get in her face, but I wouldn't seek the bitch out if I never met or saw her. The truly guilty one is the cheater. He gets the biggest frying pan upside the head.
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