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    Post by Alan Smithee Fri Dec 10, 2010 6:43 pm

    I didn't want to hijack Chris' "10 ways to tell if he's gay" thread so I'll ask the question here. Does anyone think there's such a thing? Do you think you've got it? If you do think there is such a thing, do you think it's more prevalent with gay men and lesbian women? Sorry if this has already been discussed.
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    Post by Forgiveness Man Fri Dec 10, 2010 6:49 pm

    I guess it in theory can exist.
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    Post by Shale Fri Dec 10, 2010 7:06 pm

    As with most "extrasensory perceptions" it is probably a lot of observation that we intuitively do that we may not be conscious of. Discounting the flaming gay ppl and the non-gay metro-sexuals some str8 appearing gay ppl may give off certain "vibes" that we pick up on and that is where the gaydar is.

    My gaydar doesn't always function properly. In the '80s I worked at a place where I did not know a co-worker was gay. I never connected the dots at the time - but later, years after I quit, we had some good times in bed.
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    Post by Alan Smithee Fri Dec 10, 2010 7:11 pm

    Shale wrote:- but later, years after I quit, we had some good times in bed.

    LOL. Was that a d-oh! D'oh moment?
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    Post by Tony Marino Fri Dec 10, 2010 8:58 pm

    Oh yeah it definetly exists, its all in the way you look at one another, a certain spark goes off! Its probably more dominant amongst gay men.
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    Post by RobbieFTW Sat Dec 11, 2010 12:46 am

    I guess some "sixth sense" can tell you if someone you don't know too well is, but for me I think a lot of GAYDAR has to do with the way guys look at me. Straight men don't hold eye contact with other guys any longer than they have to. Gay guys do.
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    Post by Tony Marino Sat Dec 11, 2010 11:30 am

    RobbieFTW wrote:I guess some "sixth sense" can tell you if someone you don't know too well is, but for me I think a lot of GAYDAR has to do with the way guys look at me. Straight men don't hold eye contact with other guys any longer than they have to. Gay guys do.

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    Post by Chris Sat Jun 11, 2011 12:23 pm

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    Post by (Oh!) Rob Petrie Sat Jun 11, 2011 12:54 pm

    Of course gaydar exists. Blue Cool
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    Post by Shale Sat Jun 11, 2011 6:02 pm

    Rockbird wrote:Of course gaydar exists. Blue Cool

    So, you can spot gay men, even if they are Manly Cowboys?

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    Post by Nystyle709 Sat Jun 11, 2011 6:10 pm

    I guess there is....but mine is kinda shitty. You have be flaming for me to pick up on the fact that you're gay. If you're not the type to be overt about it, then I'd prob. wouldn't notice.
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    Post by (Oh!) Rob Petrie Sat Jun 11, 2011 6:21 pm

    Shale wrote:
    Rockbird wrote:Of course gaydar exists. Blue Cool

    So, you can spot gay men, even if they are Manly Cowboys?

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    Of course. Smile Simple test: flirt with everyone. The one's who respond are gay. big grin
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    Post by Cheaps Sun Jun 12, 2011 1:25 am

    Nystyle709 wrote:I guess there is....but mine is kinda shitty. You have be flaming for me to pick up on the fact that you're gay. If you're not the type to be overt about it, then I'd prob. wouldn't notice.

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