Do you like people around you who never wanna rock the boat where you're concerned....you ask them what they wanna do and they respond "What do you wanna do?" They never express an opinion, or if they it's one that's hesitant or in-affirmative. Like they're afraid that if they disagree you'll cut them off.

I have one friend like that where I have to make all the decisions. Sometimes I force him to make a choice, I just don't come up with anything and remain silent.

I don't like that at all. I like it to go both ways when it comes to plans or anything of the sort.

For some reason I run into this a lot. Sometimes it can be cute that they are so agreeable, but other times it's irksome because it can result in a stalemate.

RedBedroom wrote:

I don't like that at all. I like it to go both ways when it comes to plans or anything of the sort.

It should go both ways. I get accused of being indecisive with the husband because when he asks where I want to eat this is how it usually goes:

Seafood place? Him-"I'm not really in the mood for fish."

Outback? Him-"Too expensive."

Steak n Shake? Him-"Their burgers are too small."

Moe's? Him-"That's all the way over on the other side of town."

Well where do you want to go? Him-"Why can't you ever make up your mind?!"

My oldest daughter does this a lot. When asked what she wants to do or where she wants to go, she'll respond "I don't know, what do you want to do ?" I just look at her and say "sweetheart that isn't what I just asked you." That sets off alarms for me and I hope by the time she starts dating she won't have that same pacifist attitude.