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    Parents pressuring kids for grandchidren

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    Post by Chris Mon Dec 20, 2010 6:34 am

    Have your parents ever given you the third degree about when they're going to get grandchildren. For the past few years, my mom has been pressing me for more grandchildren. My daughter is her only grandchild, neither of my sisters have kids. Why I'm the one being looked to spit out more when I already produced one is just galling to me.
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    Post by AtownPeep Mon Dec 20, 2010 11:05 am

    When my mama tries that with me, I tell her that I can give her a grandchild in nine months but that SHE is the one who will have to feed, cook for, change, clothe, immunize and basically raise it. If she's not willing to do all that, then I'll take on the task of motherhood when I get ready.
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    Post by TSJFan4Ever Mon Dec 20, 2010 6:40 pm

    Third degree, no,l but I know that they want grandchilren, but they also know that I want a big family, so I think that's part of it. The pressue has eased now that they have a granddaughter, though.
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    Post by Nystyle709 Mon Dec 20, 2010 7:46 pm

    Nope. My mother is the only one out of all of her sisters who doesn't have grandkids.......and she's perfectly cool with that. She thinks I'm too young to have children, my father says the same thing. So thankfully, I don't have to hear it.
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    Post by Shale Mon Dec 20, 2010 9:37 pm

    My sister had 3 girls and a boy - took any pressure off of me. I don't think my mom was that desperate for grandkids anyhow.

    And, at the time my sister was producing them, I was hanging with dopers and hippies and GUYS. If I had any spawn my mom woulda been afraid of them.
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    Post by Tony Marino Mon Dec 20, 2010 9:49 pm

    My Mama used to mention it to me now and then but no real pressure, she already had loads of grandchildren from my other siblings. Glad that I will not disappoint her.
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    Post by RedBedroom Wed Dec 22, 2010 12:08 am

    If Mom was still alive, I suspect she would be fishing for another grandchild!
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    Post by Jason B. Wed Dec 22, 2010 1:19 am

    My mother is so disheartened by the fact that I have no kids that she doesn't even bring it up anymore.

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