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PostSubject: Do you hold grudges?   Do you hold grudges? EmptyMon Jan 10, 2011 5:57 am
Are you likely to still be hanging on, years later, to the upset someone caused you, or are you more prone to resolve it in your mind and move on?
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PostSubject: Re: Do you hold grudges?   Do you hold grudges? EmptyMon Jan 10, 2011 6:05 am
no im not one to really hold grudges
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PostSubject: Re: Do you hold grudges?   Do you hold grudges? EmptyMon Jan 10, 2011 9:27 am
I do hold grudges but i'm quick to forgive. No matter how bad somebody treated me IF they say sorry then i'm willing to be friends but if they never apologized then I stay mad.
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PostSubject: Re: Do you hold grudges?   Do you hold grudges? EmptyMon Jan 10, 2011 10:45 am
I can but try to not do it if I really want to remain friends with them. It can have an effect on how much I'm able to trust them though, especially if they seem to have no regret about it.
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PostSubject: Re: Do you hold grudges?   Do you hold grudges? EmptyMon Jan 10, 2011 1:05 pm
I am better about it now that I am older. I see that sometimes it is better to keep the peace then to hold on to something, especially if I have friendships in common with them.

My oldest friend really screwed me over a month ago. Never expected it from her. My high school best friend is also her friend, so a couple weeks ago, I just told her that we're good, but really I won't ever be the same toward her unless she comes clean to me about her behavior. Ten years ago, I would have never, ever just made peace to keep the peace. It would have been a good three four years before I even would have contacted her.
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PostSubject: Re: Do you hold grudges?   Do you hold grudges? EmptyMon Jan 10, 2011 1:23 pm
I CAN'T hold a grudge. I've tried, but over time my view softens and I can't stay mad.
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PostSubject: Re: Do you hold grudges?   Do you hold grudges? EmptyMon Jan 10, 2011 2:22 pm
No. Holding grudges is self-victimization and borderline masochistic. It does only eats at the grudge holder, does nothing to the one that they are embittered at. I don't have to like someone who acted rotten towards me, but I try to not allow them to trample through my peaceful mind, if it's at all avoidable.
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PostSubject: Re: Do you hold grudges?   Do you hold grudges? EmptyMon Jan 10, 2011 8:18 pm
^^^^ Do you hold grudges? 35166 . Unless someone slept with your man or woman or stole from you or some shit, most stuff that people usually hold grudges over are petty.
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PostSubject: Re: Do you hold grudges?   Do you hold grudges? EmptyTue Jan 11, 2011 10:41 am
I'm good at holding them when the fallout is fresh, but do have a cut off point where I start becoming apathetic.
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PostSubject: Re: Do you hold grudges?   Do you hold grudges? EmptyWed Apr 27, 2011 2:13 am
Chris wrote:
Are you likely to still be hanging on, years later, to the upset someone caused you, or are you more prone to resolve it in your mind and move on?

That first one. I'm a Virgo, can't help it....
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PostSubject: Re: Do you hold grudges?   Do you hold grudges? EmptyWed Apr 27, 2011 2:18 am
Oh yeah, definitely.
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