Most people know that staring is rude. I have noticed that here in the area where I live, people don't refrain from staring at others. If I see the same person or people regularly in social settings, a few have been chronic starers. These are people that I do not know. I don't know if they want me to put on a show, say hello, get to know them or what. What do you think?
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Do you find staring to be odd?
CatEyes10736- …is a Power Member.
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I hate when people stare at me. Clearly you got something on your mind to be eyeing me that hard, you got something to say say it.
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I find it to be very odd. I wonder what it is about me that keeps them in such wonder. I usually assume it is negative and feel very strange when stared at.
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I usually ignore it but if they persist I always acknowledge them. They usually stop. Unless I really think they're being a jerk it doesn't annoy me. I figure they may think they recognize me or I remind them of someone. But if I think they're deliberately being rude I sometimes add "How ya doin'?"
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sometimes I think people do it to assert their dominance over others, sometimes I think they are just day dreaming, and sometimes I think they are shy and want to get the nerve to talk to the person they are staring it.
It makes me uncomfortable when people are staring at me, but I just smile at them and use their reaction to guess which one I think it is. If they smile back I think they are shy, if they don't do anything I think they are daydreaming and if they make a stern face I think they are asserting their dominance and I stick my tongue out at them.
It makes me uncomfortable when people are staring at me, but I just smile at them and use their reaction to guess which one I think it is. If they smile back I think they are shy, if they don't do anything I think they are daydreaming and if they make a stern face I think they are asserting their dominance and I stick my tongue out at them.
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I find prolonged staring to be very odd, uncomfortable and of course rude. It's as if someone is looking through you.
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Perhaps for the most part. Most people aren't comfortable with it.
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I find it not so much odd but rude. I'd make sure they weren't staring at something behind me before I made them uncomfortable for doing it.
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It's really odd....I have a story about a staring incident, but I don't feel comfortable posting it. But yeah, odd.
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Marc™ wrote:It's really odd....I have a story about a staring incident, but I don't feel comfortable posting it. But yeah, odd.
Someone was staring at your crotch and you got hard and everyone noticed it? Yeah, I've done that before.
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Deep staring usually means one or two things, that they're interested or that they're plotting against you. Because the latter probably doesn't happen as much as the former, I can't say that I'm all that bothered when guys heavy stare at me!
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Its bizarre and very rude. Sometimes if someone stares at me I stare right back!
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Tony Marino wrote:Its bizarre and very rude. Sometimes if someone stares at me I stare right back!
I bet you're hot when you're angry Tony!
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CatEyes10736 wrote:Tony Marino wrote:Its bizarre and very rude. Sometimes if someone stares at me I stare right back!
I bet you're hot when you're angry Tony!
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I hate to say it, but my first thought is that there's something wrong with them. It's common among the kids I work with - special needs kids - and something they have to be taught not to do. Sometimes I'll stare back at them for a few seconds and if they don't break their gaze, then I say hello, which is usually enough to make them stop staring. I've noticed that certain cultural groups will stare more than others - immigrant/non-resident groups - from certain countries. Maybe they're curious but yeah - it's pretty rude? We had a Japanese exchange student who was ALWAYS staring and it drove me crazy so I started asking her if she was okay or wanted something every time I caught her staring at me. After several weeks, she finally stopped. I just wish I'd thought of it earlier in her stay, rather than letting it go on for several months. She didn't stare nearly as much after about 3 weeks of me asking her if she was okay or needed something. Sometimes I'd have to ask her 3 or 4 times in the space of an hour, if we were together for a longer period of time.
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