Home
Excluding your parents; do you have any relatives who you simply dislike? Is this a petty grievance on your part, or did they actually do something that earned your wrath?
+9
Nhaiyel
Cheaps
TSJFan4Ever
Marc™
Tony Marino
(Oh!) Rob Petrie
Alan Smithee
Shale
Chris
13 posters
Relatives you dislike.
Chris- Chamber Admin.
Join date : 2010-01-30
Location : Oak Park, Michigan
Posts : 23201
Rep : 330
Shale- ...is a Chamber Royal.
Join date : 2010-09-27
Location : Miami Beach
Posts : 9699
Rep : 219
I don't know many of my relatives and none live here in South Florida, so there's nothing to dislike. I probably would dislike many on the Mississippi redneck side of the family but IDK. Got some cousins in St. Louis that are fun to be with but see them only on rare visits. So, best way to avoid family conflict is to move to an isolated peninsula.
Alan Smithee- ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
Join date : 2010-09-03
Location : 40º44’18.33”N 73º58’31.82”W
Posts : 25792
Rep : 381
My father's sister and her family. I haven't had to have any contact with them in many, many years so they're basically out of sight out, of mind. Or as translated directly to Russian, "invisible maniac".
(Oh!) Rob Petrie- …is a Power Member.
Join date : 2011-01-30
Location : Boston
Posts : 1677
Rep : 62
As far as I am concerned, there is no binding law that forces anybody to like any other member of their family, which is something that my dear mother likes to deny. However, personally, I don't find that common DNA strands are enough to convince me that a relationship is worth maintaining. There has to be some level of mutual respect earned over time.
A family is designed to be a safety net; unfortunately, many members of my family have proven to be in it solely for themselves. One disappointment after the next. As a result, I have decided to terminate any sort of connection with a large chunk of family. If you cannot be trusted, you have no business being a contributing factor in my life. Uncles, cousins, aunts included.
A family is designed to be a safety net; unfortunately, many members of my family have proven to be in it solely for themselves. One disappointment after the next. As a result, I have decided to terminate any sort of connection with a large chunk of family. If you cannot be trusted, you have no business being a contributing factor in my life. Uncles, cousins, aunts included.
Tony Marino- …is a Global Moderator.
Join date : 2010-01-31
Location : New York
Posts : 26786
Rep : 607
My two cousins on my mother's side. These two monsters have stolen from the family and are just money hungry thieves and I dislike them intensely.
Shale- ...is a Chamber Royal.
Join date : 2010-09-27
Location : Miami Beach
Posts : 9699
Rep : 219
Rockbird wrote:As far as I am concerned, there is no binding law that forces anybody to like any other member of their family, ... personally, I don't find that common DNA strands are enough to convince me that a relationship is worth maintaining. There has to be some level of mutual respect earned over time...
I Agree.
Here are my thots from the time of living with non-related "brothers & sisters."
In your journey thru this life you often find yourself closer related to those you encounter than to those whose physical flesh you were born of and you realize that your physical heritage is no more than a garment you were issued by others and not always of your style or fit.
Shale Stone sometime in the '70s
Marc™- …is a Chamber DEITY.
Join date : 2010-01-30
Location : Michigan
Posts : 12006
Rep : 212
I have 2 older cousins on my mothers side who I never really cared for....brothers, one is annoying 'player'-type and the other is an annoying nerd.
TSJFan4Ever- …is a Chamber Royal.
Join date : 2010-03-28
Posts : 5362
Rep : 78
I don't know about dislike, but I have one and and uncle whom I'm not that fond of. I mean - I like them, but my uncle is someone I hardly no. He has NO social skills and even on the rare occasions he calls my Mom, if I pick up the phone, he asks to speak to her right away - no chit-chat, now how are you - just "Hi - is you Mom there please". His wife, my aunt, is a very selfish person who thinks no one has hard it harder than her because she's had some health challenges. Other than that, I like the rest of my family.
Cheaps- ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
Join date : 2010-11-17
Posts : 25876
Rep : 252
just my crazy ass twack head uncle...
other family member like on my dads side i dont dislike, just dont know them
other family member like on my dads side i dont dislike, just dont know them
Nhaiyel- …is a Power Member.
Join date : 2010-02-02
Location : Jersey (West Orange)
Posts : 3137
Rep : 123
I have an great uncle on my mom's side who I completely dislike. Not only is he a loud mouth, but he was/is a bully, who I heard beat my aunt and their kids.
MandyPerfumeGirl- …is a Power Member.
Join date : 2010-05-31
Location : Illinois
Posts : 1273
Rep : 26
Chris wrote:Excluding your parents; do you have any relatives who you simply dislike? Is this a petty grievance on your part, or did they actually do something that earned your wrath?
The easier question for me would be who do I actually like in my family? Outside of my Mom, my family falls into two catergories: ones I don't even know and ones I don't like. There's only one exception to this and that's my Aunt Veronica. But any family member I've ever known (except for Mom and said aunt) I dislike immensely. And they completely earned my wrath!
RobbieFTW- …is Being Fitted For a Crown.
Join date : 2010-01-31
Location : Dearborn
Posts : 4152
Rep : 145
Too bad i can't say my dad. I do have this elderly aunt on my mom's side (my grandma's sister) that loves to drill me with question after question at every family get together. She's KNOWN in our family as having a big mouth and we all sort of tolerate her nosiness.
Tony Marino- …is a Global Moderator.
Join date : 2010-01-31
Location : New York
Posts : 26786
Rep : 607
MandyPerfumeGirl wrote:Chris wrote:Excluding your parents; do you have any relatives who you simply dislike? Is this a petty grievance on your part, or did they actually do something that earned your wrath?
The easier question for me would be who do I actually like in my family? Outside of my Mom, my family falls into two catergories: ones I don't even know and ones I don't like. There's only one exception to this and that's my Aunt Veronica. But any family member I've ever known (except for Mom and said aunt) I dislike immensely. And they completely earned my wrath!
Makes you wonder why they would even do anything to make you dislike them, I guess in some families like mine it comes naturally.
CatEyes10736- …is a Power Member.
Join date : 2010-01-31
Location : Portland, Oregon
Posts : 2665
Rep : 126
I probably shouldn't say this, but I don't care much for my grandfather (my dad's father.) An Irish immigrant, he is very critical, doesn't censor what he says or exercise tact. He has a reputation in the family for being crotchety, obnoxious and just plain mean.
RedBedroom- …is a Chamber DEITY.
Join date : 2010-02-18
Posts : 10696
Rep : 312
I don't like my guy's brother or his wife. Especially not the wife. She is vile and a user and it stinks that she is mom to my son's only first cousins that live in this state.
|
|
|
» NEW ADDRESS: http://conversationchamber.ipbhost.com/
» New project
» st pattys day
» White smoke signals cardinals have selected a new pope
» Red?
» Do You Look Like a Celebrity?
» Canned Foods
» English Muffins or Toast?