Chris Chamber Admin.
Join date : 2010-01-30 Location : Oak Park, Michigan Posts : 23201 Rep : 330
| Subject: If your mate gained weight. Wed Feb 09, 2011 9:33 am | |
| If your partner put on so much weight that you started not finding them physically attractive anymore, how would you deal with it? Would you implore that they diet, and if they didn't lose the weight would that be grounds enough for you to leave? | |
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Tony Marino …is a Global Moderator.
Join date : 2010-01-31 Location : New York Posts : 26786 Rep : 607
| Subject: Re: If your mate gained weight. Wed Feb 09, 2011 2:43 pm | |
| I would politely ask that they lose weight and encourage them all the way. I don't think that is grounds for leaving unless they became grossly obese. | |
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Nhaiyel …is a Power Member.
Join date : 2010-02-02 Location : Jersey (West Orange) Posts : 3137 Rep : 123
| Subject: Re: If your mate gained weight. Wed Feb 09, 2011 6:00 pm | |
| I would be considerate, yet very clear, that their changing appearance was becoming an issue for me. | |
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RedBedroom …is a Chamber DEITY.
Join date : 2010-02-18 Posts : 10696 Rep : 312
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TSJFan4Ever …is a Chamber Royal.
Join date : 2010-03-28 Posts : 5362 Rep : 78
| Subject: Re: If your mate gained weight. Sat Feb 12, 2011 2:46 am | |
| ITA with Nhaiyel and Red. I'd offer to work with them to loose the weight - go for walks together, work on a healthier diet, and so on. | |
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