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+7CatEyes10736 (Oh!) Rob Petrie Marc™ Alan Smithee Forgiveness Man Nystyle709 Kral 11 posters |
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Kral …is a Power Member.
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| Subject: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Fri Jun 24, 2011 9:32 pm | |
| Just curious how others would react.
My co-worker told me today, that he caught his 15 year old daughter having sex with her boyfriend.
To make things worse, it was under his roof. He said her boyfriend was over and the bedroom door was closed. She was to leave the door open when he was there and didn't. Co-worker said when he opened the door There they were going at it right in front of him!! wow!! (don't know why they were stupid enough to close the door and think they could just go at it without getting caught ). Boyfriend got kicked out and co-worker and Daughter got in a very big fight over her stunt.
I could tell he was stressed about it. He knew she was no angel, but to go that far as in the house WOW.
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Nystyle709 ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
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| Subject: Re: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Sat Jun 25, 2011 9:41 am | |
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Forgiveness Man …is a Chamber Royal.
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| Subject: Re: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Sat Jun 25, 2011 9:46 am | |
| I dunno how I'd react. Wouldn't want to be my kids though if they did. | |
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Alan Smithee ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
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| Subject: Re: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Sat Jun 25, 2011 10:31 am | |
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- Get my belt.
or your car keys! | |
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| Subject: Re: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Sat Jun 25, 2011 11:51 am | |
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(Oh!) Rob Petrie …is a Power Member.
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| Subject: Re: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Sat Jun 25, 2011 11:54 am | |
| Well, where would you expect them to have sex? A park? The more important question is this: were they using a condom? | |
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Nystyle709 ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
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| Subject: Re: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Sat Jun 25, 2011 1:41 pm | |
| She'd be grounded indefinitely, and I'd permit absolutely no further contact with her boyfriend. | |
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captainbryce …is a Power Member.
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| Subject: Re: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Sat Jun 25, 2011 1:46 pm | |
| It depends on what you mean by "teen". Thirteen is a far cry from Nineteen. - Kral wrote:
- Just curious how others would react.
My co-worker told me today, that he caught his 15 year old daughter having sex with her boyfriend.
To make things worse, it was under his roof. He said her boyfriend was over and the bedroom door was closed. She was to leave the door open when he was there and didn't. Co-worker said when he opened the door There they were going at it right in front of him!! wow!! (don't know why they were stupid enough to close the door and think they could just go at it without getting caught ). Boyfriend got kicked out and co-worker and Daughter got in a very big fight over her stunt.
I could tell he was stressed about it. He knew she was no angel, but to go that far as in the house WOW.
What would some of you do if this happened? I'd probably react in the same way that he did. Not much more you could do beyond that. I'm sure they'd get over it eventually, but it does show either a lack of parenting on his part or a general disrespect for her father's house on her part. Probably a little of both! | |
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Forgiveness Man …is a Chamber Royal.
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| Subject: Re: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Sat Jun 25, 2011 2:01 pm | |
| - (Oh!) Rob Petrie wrote:
- Well, where would you expect them to have sex? A park?
Nah, I expect them to be mature enough to be able to not do it. It's not nearly the unreasonable expectation that immature people make it out to be. | |
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(Oh!) Rob Petrie …is a Power Member.
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| Subject: Re: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Sat Jun 25, 2011 2:18 pm | |
| I lost my virginity at 15. Seems I turned out quite alright. | |
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Forgiveness Man …is a Chamber Royal.
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| Subject: Re: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Sat Jun 25, 2011 2:18 pm | |
| - (Oh!) Rob Petrie wrote:
- I lost my virginity at 15. Seems I turned out quite alright.
No comment (In the interest of not poster bashing.)
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(Oh!) Rob Petrie …is a Power Member.
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| Subject: Re: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Sat Jun 25, 2011 2:19 pm | |
| Jerk. | |
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Forgiveness Man …is a Chamber Royal.
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| Subject: Re: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Sat Jun 25, 2011 4:48 pm | |
| - CatEyes10736 wrote:
- She'd be grounded indefinitely, and I'd permit absolutely no further contact with her boyfriend.
You're having a girl, right Cat? | |
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(Oh!) Rob Petrie …is a Power Member.
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| Subject: Re: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Sat Jun 25, 2011 4:48 pm | |
| What about parents of boys? | |
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| Subject: Re: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Sat Jun 25, 2011 11:03 pm | |
| It makes me both proud and nervous to say that I don't think my daughter would be stupid enough to get caught. But if I did happen upon such a sight, it'd be over for her. To be fair I'd give the boy a eight second head start to leave unscathed. After that she'd be on severe restriction, and that relationship would be finito. | |
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(Oh!) Rob Petrie …is a Power Member.
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| Subject: Re: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Sat Jun 25, 2011 11:22 pm | |
| Forbidden it will only cause it happen again and probably under riskier circumstances. | |
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| Subject: Re: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Sun Jun 26, 2011 1:26 am | |
| Personally, I think this must be one of the hardest things for parents of teens to think about. My son is pre teen, so I have never even seen him hold hands with a girl. So, when the time comes that I see him getting more "hands on" with girls he is "going out with", I can handle it well so he does not make stupid decisions. | |
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| Subject: Re: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Sun Jun 26, 2011 1:36 am | |
| - RedBedroom wrote:
- Personally, I think this must be one of the hardest things for parents of teens to think about. My son is pre teen, so I have never even seen him hold hands with a girl. So, when the time comes that I see him getting more "hands on" with girls he is "going out with", I can handle it well so he does not make stupid decisions.
Red you're so lucky you have a boy. | |
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| Subject: Re: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Sun Jun 26, 2011 1:44 am | |
| - Chris wrote:
- RedBedroom wrote:
- Personally, I think this must be one of the hardest things for parents of teens to think about. My son is pre teen, so I have never even seen him hold hands with a girl. So, when the time comes that I see him getting more "hands on" with girls he is "going out with", I can handle it well so he does not make stupid decisions.
Red you're so lucky you have a boy. Right! Isn't there a quote that goes like, "When you have a boy, you only have to worry about one boy, but when you have a girl, you have to worry about all the boys!" | |
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Forgiveness Man …is a Chamber Royal.
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| Subject: Re: What would you do if you caught your teen having sex? Sun Jun 26, 2011 9:12 am | |
| - (Oh!) Rob Petrie wrote:
- Forbidden it will only cause it happen again and probably under riskier circumstances.
Guess I better let them use drugs in the house. At least then I can make sure the needles are clean and the stuff isn't laced with anything else. If I forbid them to do drugs in the house, they'll only get them elsewhere and in more dangerous ways. Better to get high under the safety of my roof than with street thugs. | |
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