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    Would you date someone who had been promiscuous before meeting you?

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    Post by Chris Sun Jul 10, 2011 8:39 am

    If someone you were dating revealed to you that they had had dozens–hundreds even–of sex partners before meeting you (but were disease-free, with the paperwork to prove it), would you feel comfortable in continuing to date them?
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    Post by Alan Smithee Sun Jul 10, 2011 9:35 am

    Dozens? OK. Hundreds? I think not.
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    Post by Shale Sun Jul 10, 2011 9:41 am

    Chris wrote:If someone you were dating revealed to you that they had had dozens–hundreds even–of sex partners before meeting you (but were disease-free, with the paperwork to prove it), would you feel comfortable in continuing to date them?

    Would I date someone like me?

    To avoid being a hypocrite I suppose I would have to.     Blue Cool
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    Post by Nystyle709 Sun Jul 10, 2011 11:49 am

    Alan Smithee wrote:Dozens? OK. Hundreds? I think not.

    Yep. I don't think I would want to date a male Superhead.
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    Post by CatEyes10736 Sun Jul 10, 2011 11:59 pm

    No I wouldn't. If not because of health risks, then because I don't think I'd be able to trust that someone who had been around the block that many times is able to commit, or even respects relationship and intimacy.
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    Post by Shale Mon Jul 11, 2011 12:19 am

    CatEyes10736 wrote:No I wouldn't. If not because of health risks, then because I don't think I'd be able to trust that someone who had been around the block that many times is able to commit, or even respects relationship and intimacy.
    IDK, Altho I didn't have sex with a extreme amount of ppl, I did do 29 women from 1964 to 1980 (and 16 men).

    I hooked up with Brenda in 1980 and she was the only one for the next 18 years.
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    Post by Marc™ Mon Jul 11, 2011 1:16 pm

    Sure. What they did before doesn't matter, so long as they're clean....and convince me that wanting to settle down with me is where they're at now.
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    Post by Tony Marino Mon Jul 11, 2011 1:21 pm

    I don't know. It might make me uncomfortable. If they had an excel spreadsheet of their health exams to prove they are healthy maybe but I doubt it.
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    Post by Supernova Mon Jul 11, 2011 2:42 pm

    Nope. I'm not interested in a car that already has 80,000 miles on it when I first get it.
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    Post by CeCe Mon Jul 11, 2011 3:20 pm

    Marc™️ wrote:Sure. What they did before doesn't matter, so long as they're clean....and convince me that wanting to settle down with me is where they're at now.

    co-signs Not really one to hold someone's past against them.
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    Post by DanaShelbyChancey Mon Jul 11, 2011 3:41 pm

    No. I would not feel comfortable. That is the question, right? Would I feel comfortable. No I would not.

    I would not hold their past against them, I just would not date them.
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    Post by TSJFan4Ever Mon Jul 11, 2011 5:11 pm

    CatEyes10736 wrote:No I wouldn't. If not because of health risks, then because I don't think I'd be able to trust that someone who had been around the block that many times is able to commit, or even respects relationship and intimacy.

    ITA with this. I wouldn't be comfortable with it.
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    Post by tmontyb Mon Jul 11, 2011 9:28 pm

    CeCe wrote:
    Marc™️ wrote:Sure. What they did before doesn't matter, so long as they're clean....and convince me that wanting to settle down with me is where they're at now.

    co-signs Not really one to hold someone's past against them.

    I'm going co-sign this one too. People DO have the propensity to change.
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    Post by Nhaiyel Mon Jul 11, 2011 10:36 pm

    I expect most men to have gone through a promiscuous, or randy, period…but a man whose sexual history boasts dozens-to-hundreds of partners is more than likely a user of women, and probably has had some crazy chick drama mixed in there a few times. So no I wouldn't be interested in him.
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    Post by Shale Tue Jul 12, 2011 12:53 am

    Nhaiyel wrote:...a man whose sexual history boasts dozens-to-hundreds of partners is more than likely a user of women, ...
    Shale wrote:IDK, Altho I didn't have sex with an extreme amount of ppl, I did do 29 women from 1964 to 1980 (and 16 men).

    I hooked up with Brenda in 1980 and she was the only one for the next 18 years.

    So, I'm the exception and there are no other men like me?
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    Post by Cheaps Tue Jul 12, 2011 6:32 am

    Alan Smithee wrote:Dozens? OK. Hundreds? I think not.

    Yea i think hundreds would be too much for me to be comfortable too
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    Post by Nystyle709 Tue Jul 12, 2011 9:27 am

    Me and my godbrother were having this conversation a few weeks ago and I casually asked him how many girls he had slept with. He told me about 140. Now I knew he was somewhat of a man whore...but for some reason, that number boggled me. Then I did the math: he was really wild back in high school and he lost his virginity at 12. Ten to fifteen girls (sometimes more) a year sine you were 14 and you're 32 now? That's about right. At the very least, it ain't hard to accumulate that tally.
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    Post by RedBedroom Tue Jul 12, 2011 11:30 pm

    I don't think I would be comfortable. Like somebody else said, I would fear commitment issues, or not knowing how to really carry on a relationship after the newness wore off.
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