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Chris Chamber Admin.
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| Subject: Would you date someone who had been promiscuous before meeting you? Sun Jul 10, 2011 8:39 am | |
| If someone you were dating revealed to you that they had had dozens–hundreds even–of sex partners before meeting you (but were disease-free, with the paperwork to prove it), would you feel comfortable in continuing to date them? | |
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Alan Smithee ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
Join date : 2010-09-03 Location : 40º44’18.33”N 73º58’31.82”W Posts : 25792 Rep : 381
| Subject: Re: Would you date someone who had been promiscuous before meeting you? Sun Jul 10, 2011 9:35 am | |
| Dozens? OK. Hundreds? I think not. | |
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Shale ...is a Chamber Royal.
Join date : 2010-09-27 Location : Miami Beach Posts : 9699 Rep : 219
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Nystyle709 ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
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| Subject: Re: Would you date someone who had been promiscuous before meeting you? Sun Jul 10, 2011 11:49 am | |
| - Alan Smithee wrote:
- Dozens? OK. Hundreds? I think not.
Yep. I don't think I would want to date a male Superhead. | |
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CatEyes10736 …is a Power Member.
Join date : 2010-01-31 Location : Portland, Oregon Posts : 2665 Rep : 126
| Subject: Re: Would you date someone who had been promiscuous before meeting you? Sun Jul 10, 2011 11:59 pm | |
| No I wouldn't. If not because of health risks, then because I don't think I'd be able to trust that someone who had been around the block that many times is able to commit, or even respects relationship and intimacy. | |
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Shale ...is a Chamber Royal.
Join date : 2010-09-27 Location : Miami Beach Posts : 9699 Rep : 219
| Subject: Re: Would you date someone who had been promiscuous before meeting you? Mon Jul 11, 2011 12:19 am | |
| - CatEyes10736 wrote:
- No I wouldn't. If not because of health risks, then because I don't think I'd be able to trust that someone who had been around the block that many times is able to commit, or even respects relationship and intimacy.
IDK, Altho I didn't have sex with a extreme amount of ppl, I did do 29 women from 1964 to 1980 (and 16 men).
I hooked up with Brenda in 1980 and she was the only one for the next 18 years. | |
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Marc™ …is a Chamber DEITY.
Join date : 2010-01-30 Location : Michigan Posts : 12006 Rep : 212
| Subject: Re: Would you date someone who had been promiscuous before meeting you? Mon Jul 11, 2011 1:16 pm | |
| Sure. What they did before doesn't matter, so long as they're clean....and convince me that wanting to settle down with me is where they're at now. | |
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Tony Marino …is a Global Moderator.
Join date : 2010-01-31 Location : New York Posts : 26786 Rep : 607
| Subject: Re: Would you date someone who had been promiscuous before meeting you? Mon Jul 11, 2011 1:21 pm | |
| I don't know. It might make me uncomfortable. If they had an excel spreadsheet of their health exams to prove they are healthy maybe but I doubt it. | |
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Supernova The Book Chamber
Join date : 2010-06-22 Posts : 11954 Rep : 182
| Subject: Re: Would you date someone who had been promiscuous before meeting you? Mon Jul 11, 2011 2:42 pm | |
| Nope. I'm not interested in a car that already has 80,000 miles on it when I first get it. | |
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CeCe …is a Chamber DEITY.
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| Subject: Re: Would you date someone who had been promiscuous before meeting you? Mon Jul 11, 2011 3:20 pm | |
| - Marc™ wrote:
- Sure. What they did before doesn't matter, so long as they're clean....and convince me that wanting to settle down with me is where they're at now.
Not really one to hold someone's past against them. | |
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DanaShelbyChancey …is Significant.
Join date : 2011-03-01 Location : Collingswood New Jersey USA Posts : 366 Rep : 10
| Subject: Re: Would you date someone who had been promiscuous before meeting you? Mon Jul 11, 2011 3:41 pm | |
| No. I would not feel comfortable. That is the question, right? Would I feel comfortable. No I would not.
I would not hold their past against them, I just would not date them. | |
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TSJFan4Ever …is a Chamber Royal.
Join date : 2010-03-28 Posts : 5362 Rep : 78
| Subject: Re: Would you date someone who had been promiscuous before meeting you? Mon Jul 11, 2011 5:11 pm | |
| - CatEyes10736 wrote:
- No I wouldn't. If not because of health risks, then because I don't think I'd be able to trust that someone who had been around the block that many times is able to commit, or even respects relationship and intimacy.
ITA with this. I wouldn't be comfortable with it. | |
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tmontyb …is Authorized.
Join date : 2010-08-14 Location : New York City - NoHo/East Village Posts : 915 Rep : 37
| Subject: Re: Would you date someone who had been promiscuous before meeting you? Mon Jul 11, 2011 9:28 pm | |
| - CeCe wrote:
- Marc™ wrote:
- Sure. What they did before doesn't matter, so long as they're clean....and convince me that wanting to settle down with me is where they're at now.
Not really one to hold someone's past against them. I'm going co-sign this one too. People DO have the propensity to change. | |
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Nhaiyel …is a Power Member.
Join date : 2010-02-02 Location : Jersey (West Orange) Posts : 3137 Rep : 123
| Subject: Re: Would you date someone who had been promiscuous before meeting you? Mon Jul 11, 2011 10:36 pm | |
| I expect most men to have gone through a promiscuous, or randy, period…but a man whose sexual history boasts dozens-to-hundreds of partners is more than likely a user of women, and probably has had some crazy chick drama mixed in there a few times. So no I wouldn't be interested in him. | |
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Shale ...is a Chamber Royal.
Join date : 2010-09-27 Location : Miami Beach Posts : 9699 Rep : 219
| Subject: Re: Would you date someone who had been promiscuous before meeting you? Tue Jul 12, 2011 12:53 am | |
| - Nhaiyel wrote:
- ...a man whose sexual history boasts dozens-to-hundreds of partners is more than likely a user of women, ...
- Shale wrote:
- IDK, Altho I didn't have sex with an extreme amount of ppl, I did do 29 women from 1964 to 1980 (and 16 men).
I hooked up with Brenda in 1980 and she was the only one for the next 18 years. So, I'm the exception and there are no other men like me? | |
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Cheaps ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
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| Subject: Re: Would you date someone who had been promiscuous before meeting you? Tue Jul 12, 2011 6:32 am | |
| - Alan Smithee wrote:
- Dozens? OK. Hundreds? I think not.
Yea i think hundreds would be too much for me to be comfortable too | |
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Nystyle709 ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
Join date : 2010-03-16 Location : New York Posts : 27030 Rep : 339
| Subject: Re: Would you date someone who had been promiscuous before meeting you? Tue Jul 12, 2011 9:27 am | |
| Me and my godbrother were having this conversation a few weeks ago and I casually asked him how many girls he had slept with. He told me about 140. Now I knew he was somewhat of a man whore...but for some reason, that number boggled me. Then I did the math: he was really wild back in high school and he lost his virginity at 12. Ten to fifteen girls (sometimes more) a year sine you were 14 and you're 32 now? That's about right. At the very least, it ain't hard to accumulate that tally. | |
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RedBedroom …is a Chamber DEITY.
Join date : 2010-02-18 Posts : 10696 Rep : 312
| Subject: Re: Would you date someone who had been promiscuous before meeting you? Tue Jul 12, 2011 11:30 pm | |
| I don't think I would be comfortable. Like somebody else said, I would fear commitment issues, or not knowing how to really carry on a relationship after the newness wore off. | |
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