If somebody you're not interested in is pursuing you, or even just giving you a bunch of quiet signs that they're interested....how do you usually let them know that you're not?
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How Do You Tell People You're Not Interested?
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I tell them.
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Depends. If they ask I tell them I'm flattered but not interested. If they're throwing hints, I play dense and don't throw them back.
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I tell them as nicely as possible.
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I am having this problem right now. We were friends in school and reconnected on FB a few years ago. We went out to dinner once, but it wasn't a "date" in my mind. Apparently it was in his. One night he came over my place and we walked around the complex talking, but nothing physical happened--he knows about chris. However, he constantly makes comments to the point that after telling him flat out, "sorry, but it aint happening, im loyal" he just keeps going on and on... so i pretend my phone died or FB cut me off!
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FireIce918 wrote:Depends. If they ask I tell them I'm flattered but not interested. If they're throwing hints, I play dense and don't throw them back.
Pretty much.
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Tell them about those mysterious bumpy red dots on my testicles that didn't go away after a shower.
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Chris wrote:Tell them about those mysterious bumpy red dots on my testicles that didn't go away after a shower.
i've been off my game tonight cause im sick... but after i thought about it..
i'd bring out my handcuffs and whip... they either run terrified, or are really into it--- if he's into maybe i was being a little hasty in pushing him away! lol
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