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If one day you were on the Internet and stumbled across a photo of your mate in a pornographic pose, or discovered that they once participated in adult films in the distant past (have long since retired, but still never told you), would you be upset?
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If you found out your mate had a past in porn, how would you react?
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If you found out your mate had a past in porn, how would you react?
by Chris Tue Oct 18, 2011 8:10 am
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by Cheaps Tue Oct 18, 2011 9:17 am
I honestly have no clue.
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by Shale Tue Oct 18, 2011 9:26 am
Chris wrote:If one day you were on the Internet and stumbled across a photo of your mate in a pornographic pose, or discovered that they once participated in adult films in the distant past (have long since retired, but still never told you), would you be upset?
(Chris you and a select few guys here have seen what's out on the Web with me in it. BTW, you watched Two and a Half Men last nite?)
I regret that I did not do some porn in the '70s when young and in Cali. Would be nice to have that in my life accomplishments. No, porn does not bother me. I see it as a sharing with others.
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by Tony Marino Tue Oct 18, 2011 11:11 am
Opa Shale wrote:
(Chris you and a select few guys here have seen what's out on the Web with me in it. BTW, you watched Two and a Half Men last nite?)
I regret that I did not do some porn in the '70s when young and in Cali. Would be nice to have that in my life accomplishments. No, porn does not bother me. I see it as a sharing with others.
Shale, if you had done porn in the 70's I doubt you would be here to talk about it now. Be glad you didn't.
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by Nystyle709 Tue Oct 18, 2011 11:18 am
We would march down to the doctors office for some reinforcement tests. And he would have to work at getting my trust back. Everyone has a past, but if you choose to be committed to someone, you need to be honest about things if this nature. Esp when there is a possibility that I would find out on my own.
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by Shale Tue Oct 18, 2011 2:05 pm
IDK. I'm not a bottom so it would have been less risk. And I'm talking early '70s, when I was doing mostly girls with the occasional bottom guy.Tony Marino wrote: Shale, if you had done porn in the 70's I doubt you would be here to talk about it now. Be glad you didn't.
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by Alan Smithee Tue Oct 18, 2011 2:12 pm
"So how come you won't do that with me?!
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by Tony Marino Tue Oct 18, 2011 2:14 pm
Opa Shale wrote:
IDK. I'm not a bottom so it would have been less risk. And I'm talking early '70s, when I was doing mostly girls with the occasional bottom guy.
Well I am very happy you are here to talk about things
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by Tony Marino Tue Oct 18, 2011 2:15 pm
Alan Smithee wrote:"So how come you won't do that with me?!
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by Shale Tue Oct 18, 2011 2:15 pm
Alan Smithee wrote:"So how come you won't do that with me?!
"Pay Me!"
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by Alan Smithee Tue Oct 18, 2011 2:21 pm
Opa Shale wrote:
"Pay Me!"
We have joint bank accounts.
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by Bluesmama Tue Oct 18, 2011 2:26 pm
Yes! And I would have immense issue with it.
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by Chris Tue Oct 18, 2011 2:27 pm
Opa Shale wrote:Chris wrote:If one day you were on the Internet and stumbled across a photo of your mate in a pornographic pose, or discovered that they once participated in adult films in the distant past (have long since retired, but still never told you), would you be upset?
(Chris you and a select few guys here have seen what's out on the Web with me in it. BTW, you watched Two and a Half Men last nite?)
I regret that I did not do some porn in the '70s when young and in Cali. Would be nice to have that in my life accomplishments. No, porn does not bother me. I see it as a sharing with others.
I did. I stole this directly from the show.
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by Shale Tue Oct 18, 2011 2:38 pm
Yeah, back to the original question that I didn't answer. I would probably be upset if a long-term partner did not tell me about their porn past.
Not that I have anything against them doing it, just feel that sharing lives means sharing. If they did porn or sold sexual favors for money is no problem but I would like to know (probably love them more knowing they had such experience).
Like my partner Jim let me know about his past heroin addiction and how he kicked it.
Not that I have anything against them doing it, just feel that sharing lives means sharing. If they did porn or sold sexual favors for money is no problem but I would like to know (probably love them more knowing they had such experience).
Like my partner Jim let me know about his past heroin addiction and how he kicked it.
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by wants2laugh Tue Oct 18, 2011 5:14 pm
sex in general is a touchy subject with some people. others are much more open, so i could understand that it might not be brought up, especially since people DO change. Perhaps he is now embarrassed about his past. I would be hurt that he didnt trust me to accept it... but as NY said, we'd both be headed to a dr.'s office for some testing! lol
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by AtownPeep Tue Oct 18, 2011 8:39 pm
Nystyle709 wrote:We would march down to the doctors office for some reinforcement tests. And he would have to work at getting my trust back. Everyone has a past, but if you choose to be committed to someone, you need to be honest about things if this nature. Esp when there is a possibility that I would find out on my own.
That.
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by Alan Smithee Tue Oct 18, 2011 10:49 pm
wants2laugh wrote:sex in general is a touchy subject with some people.
The touchier the better.
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by RedBedroom Tue Oct 18, 2011 11:58 pm
It would bother me a lot and I would want testing done.
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by FireIce918 Wed Oct 19, 2011 8:16 pm
Chris wrote:If one day you were on the Internet and stumbled across a photo of your mate in a pornographic pose, or discovered that they once participated in adult films in the distant past (have long since retired, but still never told you), would you be upset?
Yeah, and the relationship would be over, damn that.
I'm all for being liberal and whatnot....but that's too much to just stumble upon.
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