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    Being flirted with by the wrong gender.

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    Post by Nhaiyel Fri Nov 11, 2011 3:25 pm

    How would you react to it if someone who wasn't your preferred gender were to flirt with you?
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    Post by Tony Marino Fri Nov 11, 2011 3:33 pm

    Dosen't matter to me.
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    Post by Cheaps Fri Nov 11, 2011 3:35 pm

    I wouldn't react any kind of way, just tell her to keep it movin
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    Post by Bluesmama Fri Nov 11, 2011 3:37 pm

    It's happened to me several times and I didn't like it at all. But I've always been very civil about it.

    The last one was a WTF moment in New Orleans two years ago and I had to forcefully push the girl off me.
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    Post by Minerva Fri Nov 11, 2011 10:29 pm

    It has happened to me but I have pretty much reacted the way I would if someone of the preferred gender hit on me and I wasn't interested. It most always worked.

    "Thanks but no thanks."

    Only once when a Lesbian acquaintance literally hit on me physically did I push back and told her if she didn't respect my preference I would not respect hers.

    She pretty much avoided me after that.
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    Post by gingersnaps Fri Nov 11, 2011 11:04 pm

    would be interesting at first.. but then i would tell them to back off..
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    Post by femme fatale Sat Nov 12, 2011 7:23 pm

    It's never happened and I'm not sure how I would react to that. I honestly hope it never does, because I probably wouldn't have all that cute a reaction.
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    Post by Shale Sat Nov 12, 2011 7:47 pm

    Nhaiyel wrote:How would you react to it if someone who wasn't your preferred gender were to flirt with you?

    I can't recall when's the last time a girl flirted with me. Blue Cool
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    Post by RobbieFTW Sat Nov 12, 2011 10:24 pm

    I love it when girls flirt with me actually. Its real flattering to me.
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    Post by RedBedroom Sun Nov 13, 2011 3:01 am

    I wouldn't let it bother me at all. But the one time a girl did hit on me, it pissed me off...only because I knew her and did not like her at all. Back in 1997 on New Year's Eve, a lesbian at the bar I was always at hit on me. She was always such a bitch otherwise, and she knew I wasn't a lesbian. We used to shoot pool together all the time, and she was never nice to me, but apparently got drunk enough to come on to me. She would never shake my hand after a pool game saying she was afraid of germs, yet on that night she tried to kiss me.
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    Post by Nystyle709 Sun Nov 13, 2011 3:03 am

    I'd prob. flirt right back with her, but I'll let her know that it most definitely will not go anywhere. I don't carpet munch.

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