I know it's sort of a "distasteful" question, but I sometimes wonder if for all their faults that's the one thing they have that captivates their partners to stay.
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Do you think abusive men tend to be good lovers?
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Jason B. wrote:I know it's sort of a "distasteful" question, but I sometimes wonder if for all their faults that's the one thing they have that captivates their partners to stay.
I'm sure it's one....but they have bigger problems and reasons than that.
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No and that's probably one more reason why they're insecure enough to be abusive.
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Jason B. wrote:I know it's sort of a "distasteful" question, but I sometimes wonder if for all their faults that's the one thing they have that captivates their partners to stay.
Umm no I don't...
Generally a woman stays because she can't see a way out, might be financially dependent, kids are involved, low self esteem (which IMO these people target in the first place)
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I know someone who's in an abusive relationship and said it damn sure ain't the d**k that keeps her coming back. I think it's the extacy pills.
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I don't know....but there's probably something superficial in there that's contributing to the women staying.
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