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    Post by wants2laugh Wed Dec 28, 2011 3:18 am

    At what point in a dating situation do you think it is acceptable to become exclusive? After a month, three months six months? Does it just matter on the people involved?
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    Post by Cheaps Wed Dec 28, 2011 4:00 am

    When your both ready...
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    Post by Jason B. Wed Dec 28, 2011 5:15 am

    I agree with cheaps, but I would add to that that it probably shouldn't happen sooner than a month of dating.
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    Post by Nystyle709 Wed Dec 28, 2011 10:20 am

    Yeah, what she said.
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    Post by Forgiveness Man Wed Dec 28, 2011 11:03 am

    If I am gonna date somebody, but they are gonna date other people, what's the point? lol
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    Post by CeCe Wed Dec 28, 2011 11:19 am

    Forgiveness Man wrote:If I am gonna date somebody, but they are gonna date other people, what's the point? lol
    Because it's just two people enjoying each others company. There's nothing wrong with dating more than one person at a time. Every person you date doesn't have to be a potential life partner.
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    Post by Shale Wed Dec 28, 2011 1:10 pm

    I don't have much history of dating. Back in my youth, it was meet someone and if you hit it off, have sex with them. If you really liked each other you would meet up for sex again - and both knew you could be having sex with others.

    At some point you might decide to move in together and that would usually mean being exclusive - but not always, depending on what agreements were made to that point.

    Not saying this would work for most ppl's mindset of relationships, but it worked for me and my peers in the early '70s in New Orleans. You had to have been there.
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    Post by Forgiveness Man Wed Dec 28, 2011 3:31 pm

    @ CeCe: If that's all it is, than I am not really dating them. We're just friends no different than any other friendships. Dating without being exclusive is an excuse to avoid commitment. If we're not exclusive, we're not really dating.

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