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    Which parenting style is best: 'Nurturant' or 'Strict father'?

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    Post by Chris Mon Jan 16, 2012 4:53 pm

    The Nurturant Parent Model is a parenting style which envisions a family model where children are expected to explore their surroundings with protection from their parents.

    • True discipline is not a matter of strict obedience, but of respect and compassion.
    • The world is no more inherently hostile than it is inherently friendly; it merely commands respect.
    • Respect and compassion can only be taught by example.


    The Strict Father Model of parenting is one which places strong value on discipline as a means to survive and thrive in a harsh world.

    • That children learn through reward and punishment, as in operant conditioning.
    • That children become more self-reliant and more self-disciplined by having strict parents.
    • That the parent, particularly the father, is meant to mete out rewards for good behavior as well as punish bad behavior.
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    Post by Supernova Mon Jan 16, 2012 4:56 pm

    First, definitely.
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    Post by Shale Mon Jan 16, 2012 5:50 pm

    Both models have validity and whether one is used more than the other depends on the recipient. Some kids could respond to nurturing better, drawing on their own self-discipline while others may require a firm hand and imposed discipline.
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    Post by Nystyle709 Mon Jan 16, 2012 9:41 pm

    Depends on the child. I don't think you can totally parent a child from any textbook standard.
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    Post by Marc™ Mon Jan 16, 2012 11:53 pm

    Both ends are too extreme. Mix up the two.
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