HomeWould you date someone who is not only without a job, but doesn't seem to want one and wasn't looking?
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Would You Be in a Relationship With Someone Who Was Jobless?
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Would You Be in a Relationship With Someone Who Was Jobless?
by Marc™ Wed May 09, 2012 1:48 pm
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Re: Would You Be in a Relationship With Someone Who Was Jobless?
by Shale Wed May 09, 2012 1:56 pm
NO.
I can see a relationship where one partner lost a job but there would have to be effort to get another. Can't afford it on one income.
I can see a relationship where one partner lost a job but there would have to be effort to get another. Can't afford it on one income.
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Re: Would You Be in a Relationship With Someone Who Was Jobless?
by Alan Smithee Wed May 09, 2012 2:07 pm
Not unless the reason they didn't have a job was because they were financially independent.
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Re: Would You Be in a Relationship With Someone Who Was Jobless?
by Chris Wed May 09, 2012 2:18 pm
No. That's a personality red flag.
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Re: Would You Be in a Relationship With Someone Who Was Jobless?
by Nystyle709 Wed May 09, 2012 3:11 pm
LOL.
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Re: Would You Be in a Relationship With Someone Who Was Jobless?
by wants2laugh Wed May 09, 2012 4:12 pm
i wouldnt have a problem dating someone who just lost a job BUT WAS looking. however, many men base their masculinity on work, how much they make, and whether they can contribute financially to a relationship. I would be more bothered by an insecure man with issues, than a jobless man who is committed to finding a job.
BUT HELL NO-- is he gonna sit on my couch all day and do nothing!!! Unless he his cooking and cleaning... and servicing me! lol
BUT HELL NO-- is he gonna sit on my couch all day and do nothing!!! Unless he his cooking and cleaning... and servicing me! lol
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Re: Would You Be in a Relationship With Someone Who Was Jobless?
by RedBedroom Wed May 09, 2012 11:06 pm
No, not at all. If he wasn't looking for a job, I would not be interested.
I briefly dated a guy on workman's comp for a pretty serious back injury. He was depressed over it all and really not emotionally equipped to start a relationship.
I briefly dated a guy on workman's comp for a pretty serious back injury. He was depressed over it all and really not emotionally equipped to start a relationship.
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Re: Would You Be in a Relationship With Someone Who Was Jobless?
by FireIce918 Wed May 09, 2012 11:27 pm
Fuck no. Lazy ass. Money don't grown on trees and it certainly ain't growing out my azz to his hand so he needs to get to generating his own legal tender.
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Re: Would You Be in a Relationship With Someone Who Was Jobless?
by Cheaps Thu May 10, 2012 4:57 am
Nope
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Re: Would You Be in a Relationship With Someone Who Was Jobless?
by wants2laugh Thu May 10, 2012 12:13 pm
now that i think about it... i might just tie him down or put him in a cage in the dungeon.. whip and beat him a few times...
then he would go running to get the job... cause Mistress Kearsey doesnt take any shit!! lol
then he would go running to get the job... cause Mistress Kearsey doesnt take any shit!! lol
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Re: Would You Be in a Relationship With Someone Who Was Jobless?
by Bluesmama Fri May 11, 2012 3:03 am
Chris wrote:No. That's a personality red flag.
It most certainly is! My first husband had difficulty keeping jobs because of his personality "quirks" and he was not a responsible person. I learned from that mistake.
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