Swinging.

Red's hookah lounge topic somewhat sparked this question. Ever done it? (don't lie) Want to try it? Have you ever been to any swinging parties or know of any? If you SO wanted to try it, would you be open to it?

I liked Archie Bunker's opinion about it: communism!

there are a few well known clubs here between Phila & atlantic city... i have never been, but i have heard stories. i have only had threesomes... but never a full swing or swap --- never a foursome. i think knowing the people is important tho--- if the person doesnt obey your limits, it can go bad real quick. however when in a Master/slave relationship, it is the responsiblity of the Master to protect the slave from the other dominant crossing boundaries.

my guy wants to try EVERYTHING... so i assume it will be in my future! LOL

sometimes it is disappointing--- just as some one on one partners are disappointing.. but as long as everyone is a consenting adult, i see nothing wrong with it---- if god didnt want us having sex... he would not have made it enjoyable--- the only 2 animals that have sex for pleasure are people and dolphins (dont ask me how i know that! lol)

OK Shale.... let's hear your take... cause although im a novice swinging from little twigs, we all know that you are tarzan swinging from the vines of great might oaks! LOL

Honestly, I have thought about it. I am sorta/kinda fixated on a cult in a Wisconsin town and one hotel owned by the cult is defunct and yet they hold monthly swinger parties.


Really, it would be a recipe for disaster for me and my guy as I would be the jealous type. But a big part of me wants to go but not do anything. Just to see what it is all about.

I've thought about it too. I REALLY want to attend a swinger's party. I don't plan on doing anything, I just want to be in the atmosphere of it.

Oh, I've had numerous opportunities by hopeful people but had no interest whatsoever. I think the very idea is gross.

Nystyle709 wrote:I've thought about it too. I REALLY want to attend a swinger's party. I don't plan on doing anything, I just want to be in the atmosphere of it.

HAHAHAHA u wanna SEE and BE in the atmosphere!!??? See you a closet freak!!! LOL

u wanna go watch the freaks like they are in a zoo.... but you are freaky too... just admit it! LOL

She's a very kinky giiiiirrrlll... the kind you dont take home to mmmooooththeer

What the hell you two been ingesting tonight???? I know what NY would do as a spectactor: Watch, laugh, and at the first nudge to join she'll do this:

Thats right!! She would "Wiggle it just a little bit" LOL

I really needed this tonight!!!! OMG!!!! It hurts to laugh now!

Nystyle709 wrote:Red's hookah lounge topic somewhat sparked this question. Ever done it? (don't lie) Want to try it? Have you ever been to any swinging parties or know of any? If you SO wanted to try it, would you be open to it?

Nope. Naw I'm good. No and No.

'member that topic about how women get catty when they get in a group? They get randy too!

Alan Smithee wrote:'member that topic about how women get catty when they get in a group? They get randy too!

Well if Randy is into group-stuff with women, then I guess that makes him a lucky guy, if the women want to get Randy when they get in a group.

I have never done it but I would like to attend one just to observe and see if I am turned on enough to participate.

wants2laugh wrote: OK Shale.... let's hear your take... cause although im a novice swinging from little twigs, we all know that you are tarzan swinging from the vines of great might oaks! LOL

Swinging is married ppl trading partners and when I was married my wife was not into it so no swinging in its literal definition. (My wife did suggest that I go see this girl I was enamored with just to get it out of my system - but I never did it with another woman during our two decades together)

I have done Raul when he was married and his wife was there in the room watching us. I even attempted to do a 3-way with her and Raul but she is obese and that is a turn off for me. But Raul did her and I did him. Guess that could be considered swinging.

Other than that, another 3-way with Raul and his GF a couple years ago and a 4-way in the '70s I have pretty much done vanilla sex one-on-one.

OH, wait, I did a one-on-one but the guy's friend who came with him took the pix. Guess that's not too vanilla.

wants2laugh wrote:...the only 2 animals that have sex for pleasure are people and dolphins (dont ask me how i know that! lol

Actually Bonobo chimps do sex for fun just like we do and some females have been seen trading sex for food/favors. So Bonobo Ho's

You tony... if you have two sets of huge breasts shoved in ur face... believe me.. u will want to participate...

what makes me laugh tho... is that although a threesome is usually a guy's fantasy.. some men cant handle one woman... so what the hell thinks they can deal with two??? LOL

Tony Marino wrote:I have never done it but I would like to attend one just to observe and see if I am turned on enough to participate.

Like a science experiment or nature show? Yeah, I could see Tony walking around like Marlin Perkins. "And here we see the Bearded Clam in it's natural habitat. Ah, but here comes a Red-headed Panty Hamster to compete for the Manhattan Man Chowder Thrower."

I'd have to be single....or dating somebody who I didn't care that much about.