Either Jack Callahan from While You Were Sleeping--He's nice, sometimes goofy, willing to laugh at himself, but very considerate and generous (when he gave her the waterglobe of italy, it was MEANT for her, not something he just picked up).
OR - Trevor from Army wives (had to throw a uniformed guy in there) he adopted his step kids and shows no indication that he thinks of them as anything BUT his. He is caring, hot, and an honorable leader.
OR - Booth from Bones--- THAT one i dont even need to explain! LOL (and still he's an ex-army ranger lol) HOOAH!