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Chris
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| | Subject: Loaded questions Tue Aug 14, 2012 11:49 am | |
| How do you handle it when people ask you loaded questions, such as:
'Do I look fat?'
'Have I gained weight?'
'Do you consider me attractive?'
If your opinion is the negative, what do you usually say? | |
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Tony Marino
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| | Subject: Re: Loaded questions Tue Aug 14, 2012 12:07 pm | |
| I say whatever I think they want to hear in some situations. | |
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Alan Smithee
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| | Subject: Re: Loaded questions Tue Aug 14, 2012 2:54 pm | |
| - Chris wrote:
- How do you handle it when people ask you loaded questions, such as:
'Do I look fat?'
'Have I gained weight?'
'Do you consider me attractive?'
If your opinion is the negative, what do you usually say? I dunno...does this shirt make me look stupid? | |
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RedBedroom
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| | Subject: Re: Loaded questions Tue Aug 14, 2012 2:57 pm | |
| I normally tell them what they want to hear. But if it is a good friend, I will issue honest advice or opinion. | |
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Shale
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| | Subject: Re: Loaded questions Tue Aug 14, 2012 3:08 pm | |
| - Chris wrote:
- How do you handle it when people ask you loaded questions, such as:
'Do I look fat?'
'Have I gained weight?'
'Do you consider me attractive?'
If your opinion is the negative, what do you usually say? Sounds like someone in a relationship with a woman.
Men don't tend to ask those kinda questions. | |
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Nystyle709
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| | Subject: Re: Loaded questions Tue Aug 14, 2012 5:59 pm | |
| I tell the truth, for the most part. You asked. | |
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wants2laugh
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| | Subject: Re: Loaded questions Wed Aug 15, 2012 6:00 am | |
| Men DO ask those kinds of questions.. especially Virgo men (go figure.. just one thing i found to be true with astrology lol)
I say "Does it really matter? Is anyone else going to pay your mortgage? if not, what do you care what others think-- decide on ur own" | |
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wants2laugh
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| | Subject: Re: Loaded questions Wed Aug 15, 2012 6:00 am | |
| Men DO ask those kinds of questions.. especially Virgo men (go figure.. just one thing i found to be true with astrology lol)
I say "Does it really matter? Is anyone else going to pay your mortgage? if not, what do you care what others think-- decide on ur own" | |
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Nhaiyel
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| | Subject: Re: Loaded questions Thu Aug 16, 2012 1:01 pm | |
| It depends on the urgency of the inquiry. If I think they're adjusted enough to hear the truth, then I'll tell them. But if they're asking me in some neurotic, paranoid or desperate manner, then I'll try and be nice. I won't lie, but I'll water it down to keep them from going into hysterics. | |
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