Say you are organizing a girls' night out and it is in your city with friends who all live about an hour away, respecitvely. The other three ladies are saying, "We have to invite Jane."

The thing is, Jane is a flaker, and you are buying the tickets in advance with the others paying you back.

Yeah, it's easy to say, "Just make her pay if she doesn't go." But I think even if she didn't go, she would be a rough one to get the cash from.

She and her husband make more money than Jay and I do, so I am not about to stick my neck out only to get screwed. But if our tickets are not all purchased together, we run the risk of her not sitting with us.

What would you say to the ladies advocating she gets an invite?

tell them all to mail me a check... or pay thru paypal.. then they dont have any excuses.

remember the reunion?? That one bitch who ruined the plans from the beginning never freakin paid me.. then lied and told me that she paid the doorman.. which she did NOT!

wants2laugh wrote:

tell them all to mail me a check... or pay thru paypal.. then they dont have any excuses.

remember the reunion?? That one bitch who ruined the plans from the beginning never freakin paid me.. then lied and told me that she paid the doorman.. which she did NOT!

There you go, Red. Have them pay in advance.

I'd say, ask the girls who are advocating for her to pay you back in the event that she flakes out on paying. If they can't, then don't purchase the ticket for her.

Agree with the consensus. Everyone who wants to go needs to pay in advance.