Age Gaps and Dating

Being nosy. What's the largest gap in age you've had with someone you dated. I was dated a female who was 11 years older.

I never really dated. You had to have been there in the sexual revolution to understand that you would meet someone and end up in bed with them if you liked each other. OK, if a few drinks at a bar or coffee house on first meeting could be considered a date.

One that I did date was "Mrs. R" a woman 19 years older than me when I was 23. She would come pick me up in her new car, which she let me drive. We would go to a restaurant and she'd slip me money under the table to pay. Classic cougar/rabbit relationship. And at 42 she was still quite sexually active and it was a little forbidden and fun. (She had kids close to my age).

Now, I have quite a few young men interested in me and my regular buddy who comes over for sex is 33 years younger than me. Seems that lots of young men want to make it with a daddy (or in my case grand daddy) and The largest spread was 40 years. Hey, works for me.

The largest age gap for me was 32 years and this was two years ago. I was 21 and he was 53. It didn't work out; not because of the age difference but because he was old-fashioned to a fault and backwards in his thinking - he didn't believe in interracial dating and marriages because he didn't want "mixed children running around". It's pretty disgusting to hear someone talk like that. A very patronizing thing he used to do was order for me in restaurants. I was like "what?!"

Largest gap I've slept with or dated? The oldest person I've dated was 7 years older than me.

17 years. She was 41 and I was 24.

10 years.

6 to 10 years. Aside from my daughters mother, I don't think I ever dated anyone who was exactly my age.