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    Post by stonestatic Sat May 21, 2011 1:57 pm

    Is the worse kind of abuse physical or emotional?
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    Post by CeCe Sat May 21, 2011 2:00 pm

    I honestly think one is as bad as the other. Words & certain behaviors can hit harder than a fist sometimes.
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    Post by (Oh!) Rob Petrie Sat May 21, 2011 2:35 pm

    One is as bad as the other.
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    Post by Alan Smithee Sat May 21, 2011 3:46 pm

    I'm going to give the edge to physical. Mental abuse is certainly cruel and can lead to deep emotional scars that could eventually manifest in self destruction but usually doesn't involve a trip to the emergency room. Physical abuse can kill on the spot. Plus, I think physical abuse includes a certain degree of emotional abuse as well.
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    Post by (Oh!) Rob Petrie Sat May 21, 2011 4:04 pm

    But mental abuse can last long after the abuser is dead and gone.
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    Post by Alan Smithee Sat May 21, 2011 4:15 pm

    I'm not saying emotional abuse isn't terrible and between having someone beat you up once and having someone make your life a living hell with their words for years...then I'll say the latter is worse. Emotional abuse can leave emotional scars. Physical abuse can leave physical and emotional scars.
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    Post by (Oh!) Rob Petrie Sat May 21, 2011 5:35 pm

    Emotional abuse can lead to self-harm and self-scarring. I'd say they're pretty on-par.
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    Post by Alan Smithee Sat May 21, 2011 6:46 pm

    Rockbird wrote:Emotional abuse can lead to self-harm and self-scarring. I'd say they're pretty on-par.
    I acknowledged that in the beginning and when I said I was "giving the edge" to physical abuse as being worse, I didn't mean by a much. IMO it just wins by a broken nose.
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    Post by (Oh!) Rob Petrie Sat May 21, 2011 8:25 pm

    Hmm. Still disagreed. Smile Bruises fade.
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    Post by TSJFan4Ever Sat May 21, 2011 10:05 pm

    Both are bad. Physical abuse still leaves lots of emotional scars even after the bruises have faded.
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    Post by Chris Sun May 22, 2011 2:14 am

    Physical; simply because someone who is being dealt physical abuse is being simultaneously emotionally abused as well. What I'm trying to say is that someone can't be beat up for an extended period of time without it also taking a mental toll on them as well.
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    Post by Nystyle709 Sun May 22, 2011 3:34 am

    Physical. Words are words. Don't touch me.
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    Post by (Oh!) Rob Petrie Sun May 22, 2011 9:23 am

    I also think it can be argued that physical abuse is a type of emotional abuse.
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    Post by Alan Smithee Sun May 22, 2011 9:27 am

    Rockbird wrote: I also think it can be argued that physical abuse is a type of emotional abuse.
    I've already acknowledged that too. So with physical abuse you're being attacked twice, not once.
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    Post by (Oh!) Rob Petrie Sun May 22, 2011 9:30 am

    Well, it kind of makes the thread moot. Physical (which is emotional) vs emotional = redundant.

    Puts them on the same playing field.
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    Post by Alan Smithee Sun May 22, 2011 9:42 am

    Shrugs (Oh well…) I'd still rather be pummelled with words than with fists.
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    Post by (Oh!) Rob Petrie Sun May 22, 2011 10:04 am

    Based on my own experiences, I'll take the fists.
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    Post by Alan Smithee Sun May 22, 2011 10:09 am

    I am sincerely sorry that you have a point of reference.
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    Post by Marc™ Sun May 22, 2011 10:25 am

    As has been mentioned already, physical abuse automatically includes mental abuse....so that.

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