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PostSubject: The worst kind of abuse   The worst kind of abuse EmptySat May 21, 2011 1:57 pm

Is the worse kind of abuse physical or emotional?
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PostSubject: Re: The worst kind of abuse   The worst kind of abuse EmptySat May 21, 2011 2:00 pm

I honestly think one is as bad as the other. Words & certain behaviors can hit harder than a fist sometimes.
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PostSubject: Re: The worst kind of abuse   The worst kind of abuse EmptySat May 21, 2011 2:35 pm

One is as bad as the other.
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PostSubject: Re: The worst kind of abuse   The worst kind of abuse EmptySat May 21, 2011 3:46 pm

I'm going to give the edge to physical. Mental abuse is certainly cruel and can lead to deep emotional scars that could eventually manifest in self destruction but usually doesn't involve a trip to the emergency room. Physical abuse can kill on the spot. Plus, I think physical abuse includes a certain degree of emotional abuse as well.
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PostSubject: Re: The worst kind of abuse   The worst kind of abuse EmptySat May 21, 2011 4:04 pm

But mental abuse can last long after the abuser is dead and gone.
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I'm not saying emotional abuse isn't terrible and between having someone beat you up once and having someone make your life a living hell with their words for years...then I'll say the latter is worse. Emotional abuse can leave emotional scars. Physical abuse can leave physical and emotional scars.
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Emotional abuse can lead to self-harm and self-scarring. I'd say they're pretty on-par.
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PostSubject: Re: The worst kind of abuse   The worst kind of abuse EmptySat May 21, 2011 6:46 pm

Rockbird wrote:
Emotional abuse can lead to self-harm and self-scarring. I'd say they're pretty on-par.
I acknowledged that in the beginning and when I said I was "giving the edge" to physical abuse as being worse, I didn't mean by a much. IMO it just wins by a broken nose.
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Hmm. Still disagreed. Smile Bruises fade.
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PostSubject: Re: The worst kind of abuse   The worst kind of abuse EmptySat May 21, 2011 10:05 pm

Both are bad. Physical abuse still leaves lots of emotional scars even after the bruises have faded.
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Physical; simply because someone who is being dealt physical abuse is being simultaneously emotionally abused as well. What I'm trying to say is that someone can't be beat up for an extended period of time without it also taking a mental toll on them as well.
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PostSubject: Re: The worst kind of abuse   The worst kind of abuse EmptySun May 22, 2011 3:34 am

Physical. Words are words. Don't touch me.
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I also think it can be argued that physical abuse is a type of emotional abuse.
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Rockbird wrote:
I also think it can be argued that physical abuse is a type of emotional abuse.
I've already acknowledged that too. So with physical abuse you're being attacked twice, not once.
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Well, it kind of makes the thread moot. Physical (which is emotional) vs emotional = redundant.

Puts them on the same playing field.
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Shrugs (Oh well…) I'd still rather be pummelled with words than with fists.
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Based on my own experiences, I'll take the fists.
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I am sincerely sorry that you have a point of reference.
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As has been mentioned already, physical abuse automatically includes mental abuse....so that.
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