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    Post by RedBedroom Thu May 26, 2011 11:20 pm

    ...your child dated the child of someone you can't easily tolerate?


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    Post by CeCe Thu May 26, 2011 11:25 pm

    Yeah I would. It's not the kids fault he or she is the child of a jerk. I'd certainly limit the time I spent with the parent.
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    Post by (Oh!) Rob Petrie Thu May 26, 2011 11:28 pm

    No. Honesty is the best policy. But you should be mature enough to handle such a situation so that it doesn't affect your child's happiness.
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    Post by TSJFan4Ever Fri May 27, 2011 12:46 am

    It would totally depend on why I couldn't stand the other person and what made that person so intolerable. As Cece said, the kid's not to blame for having a parent who's a total idiot.
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    Post by Marc™ Fri May 27, 2011 2:29 am

    It depends on how deep my disdain ran....but I definitely wouldn't like it and if I felt the kids parents were horrible enough to the point where their personalities had the potential to trickle down to their kid (and mine), then I would make a case of it.
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    Post by MandyPerfumeGirl Fri May 27, 2011 8:13 pm

    Yes, I'd stay mum about it. Kids can and should date who they want without the petty arguments of their parents being a deciding factor.
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    Post by Alan Smithee Fri May 27, 2011 8:18 pm

    If it was someone I despised and it got wedding bells serious between them? If the guy was decent and treated my daughter well I would let her know that I would be as civil to the offending family member as possible.
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    Post by Nystyle709 Fri May 27, 2011 10:24 pm

    I wouldn't be vocal about it, meaning I wouldn't harp on it, but she/he would know.

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