Perfect body or the perfect personality?

You're courting two potential mates...

The first has a gorgeous/flawless face and a body to kill for (you have high self esteem, but even you think they're out of your league, visually), you're very attracted to them - physically...but they're a head case. They're either annoying/unlikable, psycho, or dull. You can't have a conversation with them without getting annoyed or bored.

The second candidate isn't ugly, but has an average (unspectacular) face, is about 20-30 lbs. overweight, and you're only mildly attracted to them - physically. However, they make you laugh, has a personality that fits comfortably in sync with yours and are very sincere.

You've slept with both, and each are equally good in bed.

Who would you choose?

Definitely the personality.

I'll take the personality.

This scenario makes it kind of easier to pick the personality or perfect body.

I like to look but I'd need more someone who has a brain worth picking, so personality.

How about we take the sleeping with them out of the equation since I'd never do that?

Ditto.

Chris wrote:You're courting two potential mates...

The first has a gorgeous/flawless face and a body to kill for (you have high self esteem, but even you think they're out of your league, visually), you're very attracted to them - physically...but they're a head case. They're either annoying/unlikable, psycho, or dull. You can't have a conversation with them without getting annoyed or bored.

The second candidate isn't ugly, but has an average (unspectacular) face, is about 20-30 lbs. overweight, and you're only mildly attracted to them - physically. However, they make you laugh, has a personality that fits comfortably in sync with yours and are very sincere.

You've slept with both, and each are equally good in bed.

Who would you choose?

I'd choose the one who has the personality....but I'm gonna lie, I'd keep the sexy crazy bitch around for as long as I could....

Personality.

I'd go with personality too. If someone is average looking, but we have such a dynamic personable chemistry, then they will eventually become more attractive to me. If someone is good looking, but has an ugly personality, then the same thing will happen with them in reverse.