CC33

Would you like to react to this message? Create an account in a few clicks or log in to continue.

CC33


+5
Alan Smithee
Nystyle709
Tony Marino
Forgiveness Man
Chris
9 posters

    Do you like being called by your family name?

    Chris
    Chris
    Chamber Admin.
    Chamber Admin.


    Male
    Join date : 2010-01-30
    Location : Oak Park, Michigan
    Posts : 23201
    Rep : 330

    Do you like being called by your family name? Empty Do you like being called by your family name?

    Post by Chris Sun Mar 20, 2011 8:00 am

    Do you like it when people refer to you, not by your first name, but instead by your family name?

    Mr. _________
    Miss/Ms./Mrs. ___________
    Forgiveness Man
    Forgiveness Man
    …is a Chamber Royal.
    …is a Chamber Royal.


    Male
    Join date : 2010-06-25
    Location : Chilling on your sofa
    Posts : 6657
    Rep : 153

    Do you like being called by your family name? Empty Re: Do you like being called by your family name?

    Post by Forgiveness Man Sun Mar 20, 2011 8:28 am

    Eh, I got a teacher that does that. It's kind of weird. But I guess I don't MIND. However, more casual relationships, I'd prefer something else.
    Tony Marino
    Tony Marino
    …is a Global Moderator.
    …is a Global Moderator.


    Male
    Join date : 2010-01-31
    Location : New York
    Posts : 26786
    Rep : 607

    Do you like being called by your family name? Empty Re: Do you like being called by your family name?

    Post by Tony Marino Sun Mar 20, 2011 10:29 am

    No I don't care at all.
    Nystyle709
    Nystyle709
    ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
    ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.


    Female
    Join date : 2010-03-16
    Location : New York
    Posts : 27030
    Rep : 339

    Do you like being called by your family name? Empty Re: Do you like being called by your family name?

    Post by Nystyle709 Sun Mar 20, 2011 10:31 am

    I guess I don't. Unless you're not someone formal, I don't see why you would.
    Alan Smithee
    Alan Smithee
    ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
    ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.


    Male
    Join date : 2010-09-03
    Location : 40º44’18.33”N 73º58’31.82”W
    Posts : 25792
    Rep : 381

    Do you like being called by your family name? Empty Re: Do you like being called by your family name?

    Post by Alan Smithee Sun Mar 20, 2011 10:48 am

    Doesn't bother me. I like it a whole lot less when strangers in a business setting (like sales people) presume to call me by my first name.
    2xy
    2xy
    …is an Up 'N Comer.
    …is an Up 'N Comer.


    Female
    Join date : 2011-03-03
    Location : Providence, RI
    Posts : 289
    Rep : 22

    Do you like being called by your family name? Empty Re: Do you like being called by your family name?

    Post by 2xy Sun Mar 20, 2011 11:06 am

    Doesn't matter to me either way. I got used to being called by my last name when I was in the military, but I don't have a preference.

    You know what bugs me? That my doctor calls me by my first name, but I'm supposed to address him/her as "Doctor So-and-so." Same thing with professors at school.
    RobbieFTW
    RobbieFTW
    …is Being Fitted For a Crown.
    …is Being Fitted For a Crown.


    Male
    Join date : 2010-01-31
    Location : Dearborn
    Posts : 4152
    Rep : 145

    Do you like being called by your family name? Empty Re: Do you like being called by your family name?

    Post by RobbieFTW Sun Mar 20, 2011 11:13 am

    If i interact with them on a formal and infrequent basis then it doesn't matter, but when it comes to people like teachers and bosses it always feels kinda patronizing to me.
    Shale
    Shale
    ...is a Chamber Royal.
    ...is a Chamber Royal.


    Male
    Join date : 2010-09-27
    Location : Miami Beach
    Posts : 9699
    Rep : 219

    Do you like being called by your family name? Empty Re: Do you like being called by your family name?

    Post by Shale Sun Mar 20, 2011 12:18 pm

    Chris wrote:Do you like it when people refer to you, not by your first name, but instead by your family name?

    Mr. _________...
    No, I don't like it at all. If someone outside of a business/professional reason calls me "Mr. Stone," I tell them he died (my dad). If anyone knows me even casually, they can call me "Shale."
    captainbryce
    captainbryce
    …is a Power Member.
    …is a Power Member.


    Male
    Join date : 2010-04-11
    Location : California
    Posts : 2051
    Rep : 127

    Do you like being called by your family name? Empty Re: Do you like being called by your family name?

    Post by captainbryce Sun Mar 20, 2011 7:50 pm

    Chris wrote:Do you like it when people refer to you, not by your first name, but instead by your family name?

    Mr. _________
    Miss/Ms./Mrs. ___________
    At this point I'm pretty much used to it. In the military, in an official capacity, it's customary to refer to someone by their rank, then their last name. In a non-official capacity, people often call you simply by your last name.

    Sponsored content


    Do you like being called by your family name? Empty Re: Do you like being called by your family name?

    Post by Sponsored content


      Current date/time is Sun May 19, 2024 2:43 am