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    Is it immoral to move away from your child?

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    Post by Jason B. Fri Mar 25, 2011 7:49 pm

    Like say if they didn't have custody or only joint custody, would a parent be wrong to leave town to "start over" somewhere else that's thousands of miles between them and their kid?
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    Post by Alan Smithee Fri Mar 25, 2011 8:15 pm

    I don't know about it being immoral. I don't think it's worse than if it's the custodial parent who moves out of state, separating the other parent from the child.
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    Post by TPP Fri Mar 25, 2011 8:25 pm

    It doesn't seem like the "best" thing to do. If you can afford to fly back and forth and visit often then I think it's fine, but if you can't, you're basically abandoning your child and that child is going to have feelings about that.
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    Post by CeCe Fri Mar 25, 2011 10:14 pm

    It would depend on the circumstances. Not ideal but not necessarily immoral either.
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    Post by RedBedroom Fri Mar 25, 2011 10:51 pm

    I don't think it is immoral, but I don't see how anyone could do it.
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    Post by Chris Sun May 29, 2011 6:43 am

    It wouldn't be an easy decision to make, and I would go out of my way to avoid ever doing it, but I wouldn't call it immoral either. Sometimes reality isn't comfortable or convenient and you've got to do what's pragmatic. If I were to ever move away from my child, I would just make sure to overcompensate when it came to the lines of communication, and visits.
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    Post by Nystyle709 Sun May 29, 2011 1:55 pm

    Chris wrote:It wouldn't be an easy decision to make, and I would go out of my way to avoid ever doing it, but I wouldn't call it immoral either. Sometimes reality isn't comfortable or convenient and you've got to do what's pragmatic. If I were to ever move away from my child, I would just make sure to overcompensate when it came to the lines of communication, and visits.

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    Post by TSJFan4Ever Mon May 30, 2011 2:01 am

    I don't think it's immoral but it's a difficult decision. I know I'd have a VERY hard time doing it.

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