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Do you dwell on it when you find out (or sense) that someone doesn't care much for you, or do you easily shrug it off?
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Does it bother you when people don't like you?
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Doesn't bother me at all.
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In the past it bothered me. Today, doesn't bother me at all.
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LOL. It's their problem....not mine.
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Nystyle709 wrote:LOL. It's their problem....not mine.
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Re: Does it bother you when people don't like you?
by Friendly Veteran Mon Sep 26, 2011 11:53 am
It does not bother me but I am curiouse as to why. I try to get along with people and to try to find out why someone does not like me out of curiosity. I like to study human behavior and maybe that is the reason I like to konw.
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Re: Does it bother you when people don't like you?
by Tony Marino Mon Sep 26, 2011 11:55 am
I don't dwell on it. I am good to most people and if someone does not like me, too bad for them, not my problem.
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Re: Does it bother you when people don't like you?
by Alan Smithee Mon Sep 26, 2011 2:15 pm
I suppose it could. Yeah, generally I'd have an attitude similar to thers here (it's the other person's problem) but if we needed to interact on a regular basis, it might bother me a little. I'm not saying I would be willing to change for them but I would try to clear up a misunderstanding if that was the problem.
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Re: Does it bother you when people don't like you?
by Hyacinth Girl Mon Sep 26, 2011 4:09 pm
Nope. I get pegged a lot behind my back at work as the "Golden Girl" who gets special treatment, when in actuality, I bust my ass on the job and call out those who don't. They're either pissed or jealous, but I stopped caring a long time ago--as long as I know that I've been the best person I can be, done the best job I feel I can do, have treated others as fairly as I'm able to--then the rest is their own problem.
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Mmm. . . maybe some but not nearly like it used to. Anymore I just get curious as to why.
What does bother me is to find out that I'm disliked by someone who puts on a friendly front than he/she needs to. It's one thing to act respectful but don't act like my chum if you don't like me.
What does bother me is to find out that I'm disliked by someone who puts on a friendly front than he/she needs to. It's one thing to act respectful but don't act like my chum if you don't like me.
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Re: Does it bother you when people don't like you?
by FireIce918 Tue Sep 27, 2011 12:28 am
Only a little. If it's a random person I'll probably let it go. But if I have to stay in contact with them on a daily basis, I would like to try and figure out why because they may be holding onto a misconception. However, if that's the case, I'm not going to put too much effort into "recruiting" their friendship, since they've already demonstrated they'll fall for anything.
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I can easily shrug it off.
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