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Chris Chamber Admin.
Join date : 2010-01-30 Location : Oak Park, Michigan Posts : 23201 Rep : 330
| Subject: Sins of the parent Mon Oct 03, 2011 8:34 am | |
| Do you blame the way your parents raised you for anything wrong with your personality/life? In retrospect, if anything, what do you think your parents did which harmed you most? | |
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CeCe …is a Chamber DEITY.
Join date : 2010-06-30 Posts : 11962 Rep : 326
| Subject: Re: Sins of the parent Mon Oct 03, 2011 9:01 am | |
| No. I'm the direct opposite of everything they were. And that's a good thing. | |
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Nystyle709 ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
Join date : 2010-03-16 Location : New York Posts : 27030 Rep : 339
| Subject: Re: Sins of the parent Mon Oct 03, 2011 9:31 am | |
| No and nothing. My parents did a good job. | |
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Tony Marino …is a Global Moderator.
Join date : 2010-01-31 Location : New York Posts : 26786 Rep : 607
| Subject: Re: Sins of the parent Mon Oct 03, 2011 11:46 am | |
| I could blame my father for a hundred things but you know what? That is in the past now, I am a grown man with my own mind and I make my own decisions so if I fuck up, its my own fault now. Parents can leave scars that can last but its up to you to get over them and just move on. | |
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Chris Chamber Admin.
Join date : 2010-01-30 Location : Oak Park, Michigan Posts : 23201 Rep : 330
| Subject: Re: Sins of the parent Mon Oct 03, 2011 3:28 pm | |
| - Tony Marino wrote:
- I could blame my father for a hundred things but you know what? That is in the past now, I am a grown man with my own mind and I make my own decisions so if I fuck up, its my own fault now. Parents can leave scars that can last but its up to you to get over them and just move on.
Love your attitude, my brother! | |
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Bluesmama …is a Power Member.
Join date : 2011-07-09 Location : Portland “Burbs” Posts : 3353 Rep : 43
| Subject: Re: Sins of the parent Mon Oct 03, 2011 4:34 pm | |
| Oh, there were SO MANY things wrong while I was growing up. Making a different life for myself has been an ongoing effort since leaving home, and is still a painful process.
It definitely had the most to do with why I don't trust people, and why I'm not family-oriented. I'm very detached and do not get close to family, which has been a real major adjustment for all my in-laws. But they learned to deal with it and most of them like me, if from a distance. | |
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Alan Smithee ...is a 20G Chamber DIETY.
Join date : 2010-09-03 Location : 40º44’18.33”N 73º58’31.82”W Posts : 25792 Rep : 381
| Subject: Re: Sins of the parent Tue Oct 04, 2011 2:48 pm | |
| No, I think both my brother and I turned out pretty decent. | |
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Hyacinth Girl …is a Power Member.
Join date : 2011-05-19 Posts : 1736 Rep : 70
| Subject: Re: Sins of the parent Tue Oct 04, 2011 2:52 pm | |
| Looking back, my parents didn't always make what I would consider to be the best decision in every circumstance, but there comes a time when you have to stop blaming your parents for everything wrong in your life--you control your own destiny,learn from their mistakes, and make yourself a better person because of it. | |
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Shale ...is a Chamber Royal.
Join date : 2010-09-27 Location : Miami Beach Posts : 9699 Rep : 219
| Subject: Re: Sins of the parent Wed Oct 05, 2011 12:31 am | |
| I don't think I was harmed by my parents. My biological dad was kinda strict and I was afraid of him as a child - but that is how we were raised back then. My stepfather encouraged a lot of my nerdy ways and he probably influenced a lot of my fiscal responsibiliy.
My mom was a kid when I was born so guess she did alright. | |
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RedBedroom …is a Chamber DEITY.
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| Subject: Re: Sins of the parent Wed Oct 05, 2011 2:15 am | |
| I have character flaws that reflect Dad, but it is what it is. | |
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