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PostSubject: If You Find your SO and your BFF In Bed together. Who Do You Forgive?   If You Find your SO and your BFF In Bed together.  Who Do You Forgive? EmptyWed Dec 21, 2011 4:23 am

Let's say you knew nothing about the affair until you find them in bed together. You find out later this has been going on for months. You had been going out with your SO for 2 years and were planning to get engaged. You have known your best friend for 15 years. Assume you have an SO and a best friend (if you don't.) Would you be able to forgive them or would you cut ties with one or both?
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Neither, both of them knew damn better than that.
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IDK - so many variables here.

Is the BFF bi. Could we do a 3-way? Maybe form a poly relationship, or just a fling for a boring day.


(Or just dump them both for violating my trust)
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Cut ties with both.
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Nystyle709 wrote:
Cut ties with both.

Agreed.
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I would be finished with the both of them
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Neither. I'd never be able to trust either one of them again. There is a big world out there of boyfriends and girlfriends to find in their places.
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agreed... they are both trash. I would be much less hurt if it were a one time thing, but to look me in the face for months and flat out lie??? ugh!
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I always said I would scratch her eyes out and kill him.
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I would cut ties with both of them.
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