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Have you ever fancied someone who you were only casually involved with, who was also seeing someone else, and felt competition with that other person for their time/affection/love? If the answer is yes, in the end how did the situation turn out? If the answer is no, would you compete for the affection of someone you liked that much?
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Nhaiyel
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Ever 'competed' for love
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Never have & don't see it ever happening. I'm not competing or fighting for some guy. But maybe I've just never liked somebody that much. 
Nhaiyel- …is a Power Member.
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I refused to feel threatened by someone else, and won't continue to casually date a guy who I'm developing deeper feelings for, knowing that they are seeing other women. At that point I'll let him know where I stood and what I wanted. From there the ball is in his court to make a decision. But compete? No.
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Nhaiyel wrote:I refused to feel threatened by someone else, and won't continue to casually date a guy who I'm developing deeper feelings for, knowing that they are seeing other women. At that point I'll let him know where I stood and what I wanted. From there the ball is in his court to make a decision. But compete? No.
Seriously. I imagine it's a head trip for some guys, but no.
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Never competed. If someone is intereted in another, then let them be happy. If they are interested in me and I reciprocate there is also no competition.
(Now that doesn't include the couple of times I had a fling with a married person on the downlow.)
(Now that doesn't include the couple of times I had a fling with a married person on the downlow.)
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I've never liked someone a lot who was involved with someone else. I'm not the competitive type when it comes to men - I'm not going to fight for attention from a guy; I'm not going to degrade myself like that!
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No and no.
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I never been in a love triangle or actively competed but I've felt disheartened before when I knew someone I liked wasn't only talking to me.
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